* support CUDA using cmake built-in way (#24395)

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

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* cmake_minimum_required 3.10

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This reverts commit 068d3690.

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

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* Fix cusolver loader for Windows in dynamic_loader.cc. test=develop

* Fix missing CUSOLVER_ROUTINE_EACH_R1.
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* Add unsupprot for cusolver on Windows temporarily. test=develop

* Fix GetCusolverDsoHandle error message. test=develop

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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* add jeston compile support
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* refine the cmake
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* make CUDA_ARCH_NAME default Auto

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* refine warning

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* add support for cuda9 on windows test=develop
* use different git address for cuda9 compatible on windows 

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fix code style

1. Non utf-8 characters within comments of OPs may lead to protobuf fail to parse_from_string
2. comment out some ops which not supported on windows
3. cuda libs may not be correctly linked to target on windows

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* "re-commit "

* "picked up"

* "fix ci"

* "fix pdb hang up issue in cuda 9"