* support CUDA using cmake built-in way (#24395)

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

* test=develop

* cmake_minimum_required 3.10

* test=develop

* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

This reverts commit 068d3690.

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

* test=develop

* Remove the NGraph engine from PDPD repository
1. Each operator was removed from the operator's directory
2. Each test was removed from the unittest directory
3. The parallel executor support was removed from the PDPD
4. The CMake file was removed from the PDPD
5. The NG flags were removed from the repository
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* Remove ngraph from:
1. Cmake file
2. Python file
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cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* add jeston compile support
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* refine the cmake
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* Support looking up embeddings from BoxPS.
* Add a _pull_box_sparse op, for now this op is not exposed to users.
* Add a BoxHelper class, providing 'BeginPass', 'EndPass', 'FeedPass' functions and so on.
* Add 'BoxPSDataset' in python code.
* Add a compile options WITH_BOX_PS and a MACRO PADDLE_WITH_BOX_PS.
* Add UT.
* More concrete information pls refer to: https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/18982

* Implement the operator with sprase matrix multiply

* Update the URL of mklml library.

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* Disable MKLML implematation when using no-linux.

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* Ignore the deprecated status for windows

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* Add support for dynamic code analysis (Sanitizers)
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* Move options to one option

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* Missing check

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* remove the obsolete cmake options, test=develop

* remove unittests, test=develop

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This reverts commit c38c7c56.

* link the libwbaes.so into paddle

* polish detail, test=develop

* try fix mac_pr_ci error, test=develop

* add compile option, test=develop

* fix ci error, test=develop

* ignore failed to find mac lib, test=develop

* change cdn to bj, cdn can't get the latest version

* trigger ci, test=develop

* temporary delete win32 lib linking, test=develop

* change https to http, test=develop

* turn compile option on to off

* turn compile option off to on, test=develop

* try lib compiled by gcc4.8, test=develop

* update lib version, test=develop

* link other lib, test=develop

* add setup config

* delete false, test=develop

* delete no_soname, test=develop

* recover so name set

* fix, test=develop

* adjust make config, test=develop

* remove link to wbaes, test=develop

* remove useless define, test=develop

2. refine trt code
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