reduce the  occupied size  of memory for the fused pattern of elementwise_add Op and activation Op(relu Op for example) (#29885)

* fix op version checker of pass bug

* fix code style

* update  pass version

* Add mkldnn nearest_interp and bilinear_interp op
* don't run mkldnn interpolate in default
* add interpolate_mkldnn_pass

* add the support the op version check for matmul, test=op_version

* add the op version check for the elementwise ops, test=op_version

* add the support check for elementwise_ops, test=op_version

change the elementwise ops version check, test=op_version

* map matmul/squeeze2+matmul/reshape2+matmul to mul

* add gru op_register_version; test=op_version;

* Update fc,mul version;test=op_version;

* remove duplicate ut reload

* remove duplicate ut define in cmakelist

* Add the strategy of skipping cc/cu test compilation and execution in CI, test=develop

* fix if error with CI_SKIP_TEST, test=develop

* fix add properties to test error on Linux/MAC, test=develop

* fix set test properties of test_code_generator error, test=develop

* remove test codes and advance judgment of file modification on Linux, test=develop

* rename CI_SKIP_TEST to CI_SKIP_CPP_TEST, test=document_fix

* Add branch judgement on Linux, test=develop

* Add bf16 pool2d and unify bf16 unit tests

* Add change default ops test

* Fix cpu_bfloat16_pass

* Add output_format

* Fix incorrect SetOutput

* Change fromating

* Add multi_gru_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* cleaned up headers

* Add multi_gru_seq_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* removed unused functions

* Add bf16 matmul, fc, elementwise add and mul

* Correct unit test

* Add checkpoint to quantize

* Change bfloat16 option

* add mkldnn inplace op version test

* update mkldnn_inplace fuse pass

* update the inplace test

* register op_version for addto

* upgrade pass capability

* change eq to le

* change eq to le

* fix merge

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* upgrade pass capability

* paddle-trt support mul channelwise quant

* add support for depthwise_conv2d

* add errmsg for unsupported op type

* disable ut test_parallel_executor_fetch_isolated_var,test=document_fix

* test for limiting ut exec time as 15S

* fix an error caused by cannot find ut

* fix some error

* can not find test_transformer

* fix error caused by ut not run in windows

* fix error caused by Compiler Options

* fix error caused by setting timeout value as 15 in python/paddle/tests/CMakeLists.txt

* setting timeout value to 120s for old ut

* add the timeout value setting

* fix error caused by ut only run in coverage_ci

* add analyzer_transformer_profile_tester

* fix some error

* fix some error

* fix error with inference option

* fix error with inference option setting as ON_INFER

* add some ut to set timeout

* modified some option

* fix error

* fix some timeout error

* fix error

* fix error

* fix timeout for test_analyzer_bfloat16_resnet50

* fix error

* setting timeout properity for some ut

* first pr for new ut timeout as 15S

* Add bfloat16 softmax and gelu

* Add pass attr bfloat16_enabled_op_types

* Changes from review

* - Added sum bf16 oneDNN

test=develop

* - Fix to UT of sum bf16

test=develop