[Windows CI test] Enable unittest test_optimizer_in_control_flow and remove unnecessay code (#29851)

* split callback unittest

* rm test_callback from timeout list

* enable bilateral_slice unittest on windows platform

* reduce max threads

* Fix Windows unittest of test_fetch_lod_tensor_array

This reverts commit 067d7f1d.

* [ROCM] add rocm 3.5 and 3.9 dockefile, test=develop

* [ROCM] update rocm bin path, test=develop

* [ROCM] add dockerfile for rocm 3.5 amd 3.9, test=document_fix

* [ROCM] fix code stype failure, test=document_fix

* add double grad for conv_transpose

* Add approval monitor for unity_build_rule.cmake, test=develop

* fix words spell error, test=document_fix

* added UT should not exceed 15s

* fix error

* UT limit of 15s is the first to be executed

* fix error

* fix error with CI_SKIP_CPP_TEST

* modfied tiemout setting

* fix error

只检查增的情况，不检查删除情况

* remove addcmul

* remove unittest and other related code of addcmul

* fix bug

* fix merge conflict

* fix failed tests in yingchun gived list

* add unittests into static_mode_white_list

* add enable static

* fix dist unittest

* skip test_sigmoid_focal_loss_op & add gym

* revert no need skip unittests

* remove gym

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* Generate code coverage reports only for incremental files, test=develop

* test for diff python file, test=develop

* fix no python diff report, test=develop

* add cc test file, test=develop

* fix bug in generic.cmake, test=develop

* for debug no cc report, test=develp

* modify compire branch form test_pr to test, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* test for h file changed, test=develop

* debug for redefinition of argument optimize error, test=develop

* close -o3 for test, test=develop

* remove -o3 for test, test=develop

* remove coverage option for nvcc, test=develop

* use CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS open coverage option when header file changed, test=develop

* reopen -o3, test=develop

* remove debug code, test=develop

* remove unused code, test=develop

* Add bf16 pool2d and unify bf16 unit tests

* Add change default ops test

test=document_fix

* Add multi_gru_fuse_pass and tests

* fix date

* cleaned up headers