* fix cache table bug, add save_paddle_inference_model, fix hdfs util bug (#21052)

* fix cache table bug
* add save_paddle_inference_model
* fix hdfs util bug
* test=develop

* fix several sparse table issuses (#20686)

* no longer need to define all embedding layers (no one less) of all slots in each program. make trainer_param repeated in ps.proto.
* add find_distributed_lookup_table_grads instead of hard code GRAD
* support embedding stop gradient. push sparse has error before fix this.* 
* fix fill sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding. each slot's embedding in a sparse table should be used in all training programs before fix this.
* fix pull sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* fix collect feasign label info, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* support when there are multi sparse tables in one or multi training programs, each program can pull/push its own related sparse tables instead of all sparse tables.
* test=develop

* add copy table (#21086)

* copy some feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all dense params from one table to another
* copy some local vars to other local vars

* fix fs_client_param bug (#21212)

* fix fs_client_param bug， user can set this config through fleet_desc_file or fleet config
* test=develop

* fix fleet util bug (#21254)

* fix fleet util bug in save paddle inference model
* test=develop

* support change shuffle thread num
* support change train thread num
* fix receive shuffle data of each channel
* data norm stop gradient
* add check thread_tensor type and root_tensor type when merge metric
* remove sleep in shuffle, add config
* add config of pslib client to client communication
* fix xbox str
* add data norm op testcase
* add flush in trainer finalize

* support preload thread
* sleep before fleet wrapper exit for pslib core dump
* optimize hdfs log
* fix master+patch bug

* test=develop,  communicator merge add => merge average

* add thread scope stat accurate metrics test=develop

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix conflict

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix error test=develop

* fix error test=develop

* add get_last_save_xbox_base/get_last_save_xbox
* fix fleet_util bug of load paddle model
* add doc string in fleet api

* fix default value of fleet desc, default values are same with jingpai
* print log when save model

* add fleet util (fleet/utils/fleet_util.py): functions for users' convenience
* add some interface in hdfs util : hdfs is_file、hdfs cat

do some odd jobs, test=develop