* cherry-pick of DeviceContext Split, test=develop (#23737)

* New feature: thread local allocator, test=develop (#23989)

* add the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* refactor the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* provides option setting strategy, test=develop

* add boost dependency to cuda_stream, test=develop

* declare the stream::Priority as enum class, test=develop

* deal with PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS macro in pr #23816