[Cherry-Pick][Performance]Remove CudaStreamSychornize in ClipGradByGlobalNorm and fix shape op (#42170)

* [Performance]Set ShapeKernel with ALL_BACKEND and ALL_LAYOUT (#42138)

* [Performance]Set ShapeKernel with ALL_BACKEND and ALL_LAYOUT

* [Performance]Set ShapeKernel with ALL_BACKEND and ALL_LAYOUT

* [Performance]Remove CudaStreamSychornize in ClipGradByGlobalNorm (#42132)