* Add default cudnn lib path (#25175)

* add default cudnn lib path, test=develop

* change default path in func, test=develop

* move to linux branch, test=develop

* fix var error in other plat, test=develop

* Refactor dynamic dso search functions (#25214)

* refactor dynamic dso search func, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* polish detail based review comments, test=develop

* revert string type change, test=develop

* Polish install error hint message (#25531)

* polish install error hint msg, test=develop

* fix variable error, test=develop

* polish hint messgae again