* add CtrlConf Proto

* add HostListBootStrapClient

* add HostListBootStrapServer

* del OfOnceCall in host_list_boot_strap_client

* add BootStrapServer/Client

* Update control.proto

del rank2ctrl_addr

* add InitConfFromEnvDesc

* add log

* optimize code

* add CHECK

* InitCtrlConfFromEnvDesc

* del useless args def

* CtrlBootstrap

* minor fix
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