[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

* add TRT support for instance_norm op

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt

* fix multi-thread error of fc_gru_fuse_pass.cc, test=develop

* export FLAGS and GLOG symbols, test=develop

* Disable memory opt pass when DNNL is on

* Refine comment above mem optimization pass enablement

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* Add reshape int8 op

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* Change test to CPUPlace

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* Correct tests

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* ZeroCopyTensor::mutable_data in the right device, test=develop

* add unittest for zerocopy, test=develop

* make DisableGlogInfo able to mute all logs in inference. 

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* fix transpose conv,test=develop

* fix comments
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* Implement Int8 FC

* Integrate FC into INT8v2

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* int8 FC: transpose weights before computing scales

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* Add support for activation_type string in FC

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* Disable MKL-DNN's FC in VGG16 and 19

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* Disable FC quantization when mkldnn FC is disabled

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* Solve PADDLE_ENFORCES in FC int8

* Fix Paddle enforces and remove const cast

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* Fix style changes

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* Fix quantizer_tester test and add fc quantization

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* Fix FC test fail on CUDA

* Remove unnecessary log from quantize placement pass

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* Add Thread ID to FC hash key

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* Add comments to MKL-DNN FC Kernel

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* Refactor quantizer

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* Fix linter issues

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* Fix crash in slim googlenet

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* Fix PADDLE_ENFORCE messages

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* refine trt int8 for dynamic range set
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* refine trt int8
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* Add transpose2 INT8 for mkl-dnn

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* Fix test_transpose_int8_mkldnn

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* Revert "Merge branch 'develop' into transpose_int8_mkldnn_2"

This reverts commit 34011bdb, reversing
changes made to 2ce6473f.

* Revert "Revert "Merge branch 'develop' into transpose_int8_mkldnn_2""

This reverts commit 23754dd7.

* Add template to TransposeMKLDNNHandler

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* Resolve conflict

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* Restore get_size and refactor

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Bug Fix: Paddle-TRT cannot handle adaptive pooling in pool2d op converter and "num" attribute in split op converter (#20733)

* fix pool2d trt converter, test=develop

* add fix for split op converter, test=develop

* support MLU nums, test=develop

* change anakin apis, test=develop

* Add multihead fuse pass for ernie opt

* Refine softmax

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* Refine cuda kernel

* Refine cuda version

* Refine cmake

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* refine header file

* refine test case and pass
* refine comments

* Add ConvTranspose + BatchNorm fuse pass
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* Add tests for conv+bn and conv_transpose+bn passes
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* update operator compatible info, test=develop

* revert cmake/version.cmake, test=develop

* add unit_tests and fix bugs, test=develop

* update ../paddle/fluid/framework/framework.proto, test=develop

* fix bug of paddle/fluid/inference/api/analysis_predictor.cc, test=develop

* update paddle/fluid/framework/version_test.cc, test=develop

* add comments and rename interfaces, test=develop

FIx C++ inference BUG: When open memory optim and enable trt subgraph at the same time, there is a bug (#19969)

* fix memory optimization type
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* 1. fix BUG: open trt and memory optim will trigger bug.
2. Clean memory optim bug.
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* Add fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse pass and unittest.

* Add fused_fc_elementwise_layernorm op and its GPU kernel.
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* Apply fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse_pass to GPU inference.

* Add the setting of attrs in the definition of binary_op.
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* Add comment.

* Implement the unittest.
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* Change the unittest name of layer_norm.
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zerocopytensor support uint8, analysis config support profile, analysis predictor support GetInputTensorShape, test=develop (#19822)

* Refine the codes related to fc op.

* Add GPU implementation for fc functor.

* Apply fc_fuse_pass in GPU inference.
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* Change the cmake for fc op.

* Change PADDLE_ENFORCE to PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ.

* Add an attribute to set the activation type in fc_op.

* Enhance the unittest of fc_op.
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* Remove the declaration of FCOpGrad back to the header file.
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* Set default value for newly added arguments in test_fc_op.
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* paddle::framework::vectorize() templatization

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* update pybind/imperative.cc

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* revert update on unsqueeze_op.cc and warpctc_cudnn_op.cu.cc

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* Add a interface to enable cudnn for inference.

* Add cudnn_placement_pass.
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* Set the default value of cudnn_enabled_op_types to null.
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* Write the common basic class, placement_pass_base, to refine the codes.
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* Call EnableCUDNN in unittest.
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* Refine cudnn_placement_pass tester.

* Enable the testing of cudnn_placement_pass in inference's unittest.
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* Add the check of op kernels.
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* Add simplify_with_basic_ops_pass to replace dropout_op with scale_op when is_test is true.
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* Delete dropout_op directly when upscale_in_train is true.
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* Improve the debug string, adding the print of op_desc information.

* Fix the case when dropout's input x is reused as the next op's output.

* Add the pass to inference.
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* Change the log level.
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* Add unittest for inplace case.

* Add comment to explain the pass.

* Apply the pass for CPU inference.
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* Fix the typo.
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* Add the check of AttrType.
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* add local user data conversion into full_pascalvoc_test_preprocess.py
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* change PADDLE_ENFORCE to PADDLE_ENFORCE_GE
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* change according to reviews
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* Add generalized Conv+Activation MKLDNN fuse pass creation Part2
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* Undefined behaviour of GetAttrIfExists<> FIX
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