[Dy2stat]Allow users to switch eval/train mode when using @to_static to decorate a function (#37383)

* Allow users to switch eval/train mode when using @to_static to decorate a function

* refine code for train() and eval()

* support zero dim for slice op

* support zero dim Tensor in set_value op

* polish some debug log

* shape api should not backward

* fix stop_gradient

* update

* update doc

* Removed one ENFORCE statement

* Changed func name to _share_buffer_to

* Improve error reporting information

* Updated the logic of _is_share_buffer_to func

* fix api. test=develop

* fix api. test=develop

* Add EagerTensor and tests

* remove useless enforce

* remove comment in cmake

* fix test_error

* add depends on python

* Remove python.h

* Merge develop and add Eager tensor with test back

* add cast kernel

* add cast cuda kernel

* add cast kernel

* make cast kernel output dtype undefined

* get cast dtype from vardesc

* move cast to manipulation and add test case

* add castinfershape

* avoid reinitilaze variable

* InitializeVariable support datatype

* merge develop branch

* fix merge bug

* revert modify initializeVariable

* revert modify on InitializeVariable

* revert modify on InitializeVariable

* mutable support reset dtype

* enable make pten tensor from variable when def_arg.type is undefined

* fix build pten ctx start_idx error

* copy pten out tensor to variable

* merge develop branch

* fix non pten kernel cast failed

* add reset allocation place for remake tensor

* fix inplace realloc error

* add mutable on pten kernles and remove unused cast files

* rename function names

* fix output type error

* fix conflict with develop branch

* set data type to variable with pten's dtype

* fix test_cast_api type mismatch

* densorTensro mutable_data support 0 bytes value

* fix the inplace bug of reshape kernel

* fix pten.backend != variable.place when moving storage, palce mismatch bug

* fix conflict with develop branch

* Fix bug of paddle::experimental::MovesStorage

* fix ReMakePtenDenseTensor place mismatch bug

* Revert "fix ReMakePtenDenseTensor place mismatch bug"

This reverts commit 86336032f60b8a15eacd2c1ff2fa513f5d8dfd1a.

* fix ReMakePtenDenseTensor place mismatch bug

* reverts the set_lod interface, test=develop

* modify by the review options

* modify error message

* add & for const input arguments

* add reference in params

* elementwise_sub add mutable_data

* fix ResetHolderWithType check size bug

* add dependence pten_tensor to test_cast_api object

* remove unused code to pass ci coverage
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* modify unittest's parallel num

* modify unittest's parallel num

* modified the elementwise_op_broadcast and elementwise_op_impl for xpu2

* add new API paddle.nn.initializer.Orthogonal and calculate_gain

* fix comment

* fix comment

* optimize cache-key by replace GraphToProgram to Dot string

* fix compile failure bug

* rename TensorBase interface data_type() to dtype()

* rename type to dtype of TensorMeta

* merge the code

* merge the code

* fix the problem when merge conflict

* fix bug of ci caused by type of tensor_meta

* changes cmake to clear cache

* GeneratePass support attr condition and mapping, test=develop

* fix coverage, test=develop

* Add fuse_resnet_unit pass, test=develop

* fix CI errors, test=develop

* fix CI errors, test=develop

* fix unittest error when compiling without CUDA, test=develop

* fix static ci error, test=develop

* limit kernel size must equal 1, test=develop

Update OP-benchamrk CI scripts 

* Add EagerTensor and tests

* remove useless enforce

* remove comment in cmake

* fix test_error

* add depends on python

* graph engine demo

* upload unsaved changes

* fix dependency error

* fix shard_num problem

* py client

* remove lock and graph-type

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* batch random_sample

* batch_sample_k

* fix num_nodes size

* batch brpc

* batch brpc

* add test

* add test

* add load_nodes; change add_node function

* change sample return type to pair

* resolve conflict

* resolved conflict

* resolved conflict

* separate server and client

* merge pair type

* fix

* resolved conflict

* fixed segment fault; high-level VLOG for load edges and load nodes

* random_sample return 0

* rm useless loop

* test:load edge

* fix ret -1

* test: rm sample

* rm sample

* random_sample return future

* random_sample return int

* test fake node

* fixed here

* memory leak

* remove test code

* fix return problem

* add common_graph_table

* random sample node &test & change data-structure from linkedList to vector

* add common_graph_table

* sample with srand

* add node_types

* optimize nodes sample

* recover test

* random sample

* destruct weighted sampler

* GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* pybind sample nodes api

* pull nodes with step

* fixed pull_graph_list bug; add test for pull_graph_list by step

* add graph table;name

* add graph table;name

* add pybind

* add pybind

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* get_feat_node

* avoid local rpc

* fix get_node_feat

* fix get_node_feat

* remove log

* get_node_feat return  py:bytes

* merge develop with graph_engine

* fix threadpool.h head

* fix

* fix typo

* resolve conflict

* fix conflict

* recover lost content

* fix pybind of FeatureNode

* recover cmake

* recover tools

* resolve conflict

* resolve linking problem

* code style

* change test_server port

* fix code problems

* remove shard_num config

* remove redundent threads

* optimize start server

* remove logs

* fix code problems by reviewers' suggestions

* move graph files into a folder

* code style change

* remove graph operations from base table

* optimize get_feat function of graph engine

* fix long long count problem

* remove redandunt graph files

* remove unused shell

* recover dropout_op_pass.h

* fix potential stack overflow when request number is too large & node add & node clear & node remove

* when sample k is larger than neigbor num, return directly

* using random seed generator of paddle to speed up

* fix bug of random sample k

* fix code style

* fix code style

* add remove graph to fleet_py.cc

* fix blocking_queue problem

* fix style

* fix

* recover capacity check

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* fix distributed op combining problems

* optimize

* remove logs

* fix MultiSlotDataGenerator error

* cache for graph engine

* fix type compare error

* more test&fix thread terminating problem

* remove header

* change time interval of shrink

* use cache when sample nodes

* remove unused function

* change unique_ptr to shared_ptr

* simplify cache template

* cache api on client

* fix

* reduce sample threads when cache is not used

* reduce cache memory

* cache optimization

* remove test function

* remove extra fetch function

* graph-engine data transfer optimization
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* rename TensorBase interface data_type() to dtype()

* rename type to dtype of TensorMeta

* merge the code

* merge the code

* fix the problem when merge conflict

* add copy_to and to method for Tensor

* polish msg format

* fix details error

* fix copy_to test compile failed

* fix typo

* add cpu version, using set: sum, min, max

* add cpu version: mean

* improve cpu code and fix dynamic memory allcation problem

* fix arg error, add index judge, delete fp16

* fix bug in CudaAtomicMax and CudaAtomicMin

* add CUDA version

* fix grad_op bug for index

* add op test, add correct cpu grad op

* Add correct CUDA Mean grad

* [Add] Successful MEAN and SUM

* [Add] Successful MIN and MAX in CPU

* [Add] Successful MIN and MAX in CUDA

* fix windows dtype ci

* fix ROCM ci by adding HIP flag

* rename fused_gather_scatter to send_recv

* unify name as send and recv

* change zero index return time

* add send_recv incubate api

* fix index data type, add unittest case for API

* delete redundant input tensor

* fix en example and docs, add default value in pool_type

* add shape judge and max grid judge

* fix comment

* fix index type bug

* add const &

* fix en docs

* delete numpy in examples

* add unittest for int input

* fix send_recv comment

* change send_recv to graph_send_recv

* add reshape method for Tensor

* fix typo

* fix typo

* fix conflit with develop