* fix softmax_with_cross_entropy cuda kernel overflow bug, test=develop

* replace old macro & for condition, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

TemporaryAllocator is a singleton used for allocating memory for Cudnn. Since it is a singleton, we can delete it for better performance in memory.

We replace TemporaryAllocator by CUDADeviceContextAllocator and CUDADeviceContextAllocation, which uses stream callback to delete the memory allocated for the stream to avoid singleton.

Also added data_feed_proto to operator to fix CI in CPU compilation

* Add Temporal Allocator

* add Temporay Allocator to DeviceContext
test=develop

* code refine
test=develop

* fix mean_iou
test=develop

* Add DeviceTemporaryAllocator
test=develop

* fix conv_op bug
test=develop

* small fix
test=develop

* code refine
test=develop

* log refine
test=develop

* fix unit test
test=develop

* move double check

* refine concat_and_split
test=develop

* add limit_of_temporary_allocation
test=develop

* fix name
test=develop

* Add mean_iou op.

* Add unitest for mean iou op.

* Add optional collections of confusion matrix and mean_iou.

* Fix cuda kernel.

* Refine code.
1. Merge computing in GPU to two kernel.
2. Use wrong array and correct array instead of confusion matrix.

* Add python api and fix cuda kernel.

* Fix comments.

* Small fix.

* Small fix.