* refactor and simplify hook design

* fix reducer add hook error

* add Tensor.register_hook basic impl

* refine prepare data impl

* revert prepare data change

* support register_hook for Tensor

* add hook test in model

* polish tests and doc example

* fix double grad test failed

* remove reduce hook func

* fix set empty error

* polish code by comments

* change reduce_hook to mutable_hook

* remove useless tmp_ins

* fix shape code format error

* fix shape code format error

* delete include framework.pb.h

* fix error

* add dict/str/list supprot for DataLoader. test=develop

[Kunlun]Multi xpu dygraph performance optimization , add distributed.spawn support for multi xpu and some bug-fixes (#31130)

* add cache for VariableWrapper

* modify args names and vlog level

* format code style

* add log when set cache to variable_wrapper

* add log when set cache to variable_wrapper

* add comment to variableWrapper cache

* format code style

* revert the modification of set_expected_place

* set device before op run

* add ut

* [ROCM] update fluid imperative for rocm (part1), test=develop

* [ROCM] update reducer.cc after merge, test=develop

* update reducer cmake after merge, test=develop

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* add some RecordEvent, for dygraph timeline, test=develop

* change GpuMemcpySync to memory::Copy, test=develop

* fix compile problem, test=develop

* fix compile problem, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* support layer_norm fp16 in dygraph amp

* add ut

* refine code

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* fix dtype of ungenerated grad var

* update ut

* refine code

* set default dtype

* fix could_use_cudnn bug

* remove debug code

* re-implement

* fix bug

* change to tensor copy sync

* change to tensor copy sync

* make copy_to safe when use TensorCopy

* refine code

* add ut

* add cudapinned garbagecollector

* add testcase: cpu place -> cuda pinned place

* simplify prepared op impl to improve performance

* fix kunlun compile error

* continue fix kunlun compile error

* only transform diff place when dtype diff

* fix failed unittests

* remove useless file

* polish impl by review comment

* support dygraph in xpu place; test=develop

* fix cpu/gpu compile error; test=develop

* fix compile error; test=develop

* fix xpu compile error; testd=develop

* try to add fwd op input dtypes

* refactor base impl

* return tmp_ins after dygraph prepare data

* fix typo found in debug

* polish comment & add complex net test

* revert detail change

* fix unittest failed

* add complex kernel condition control

* fix xpu test failed & polish comment

* polish details by review comments

* add support for complex grad accumulated

* add unittest for coverage

* update test dtype

* remove useless blank line

* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* support deepcopy for Layer/Tensor/Paramerbase

* fix some code

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

* use has_grad instead of train_mode

* add vlog for debug

* fix ut

* fix ut

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* fix coverage

* fix api doc

* fix CI unittest

* fix CI unittest

* fix unitest

* empty tensor does’t need inner_var_

* fix some error message