* [feature] support npu allocator (#30840)

[feature] support npu allocator

* [feature] support npu operator (#30951)

[feature] support npu operator

* [feature] support npu allocator, part 2 (#30972)

* support npu allocator

* add npu device context

* fix some compile problem

* fix some compile problem

* add npu info

* compile ok

* fix include dir

* support naive_best_fit_allocator

* run ut ok, bug failed to exit

* call aclrtResetDevice before exit

* fix aclFinilize

* add system allocatot test

* add selected_gpus in gtest

* add tensor_test for npu

* support npu op, initial commit

* add npu stream

* add elementwise_add_op

* compile ok

* fix typo

* fix elementwise_add_op_npu_test

* support op run

* test can run but failed

* change aclopExecuteV2 to aclopCompileAndExecute

* support parsing ascend rank table file (#31000)

support parsing ascend rank table file

* Fix reshape on GE graph. (#31084)

Fix reshape on GE graph

* add npu kernel for elementwise_sub and elementwise_sub_grad (#30973)

* add npu sub op

* fix typo

* rename test

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add fp16 kernel

* fix typo

* support sub grad op

* support elementwise_sub_grad op
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>

* Fix compilation problem (#31100)

Fix compilation problem (#31100)

* fix compile

* fix code stype

* remove const_cast

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h (#31143)

* support adding correct npu op in pybind.h

* refine code

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU (#31057)

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU

* Fix code according to reviews

* Fix code

* Add unittest for sub op npu

* refactor npu device manager (#31154)

refactor npu device manager (#31154)

* fix selected npus

* fix compile

* fix reading flags from env

* format
Co-authored-by: Nxiayanming <41795079@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Ngongweibao <weibao.gong@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nfrankwhzhang <frankwhzhang@126.com>
Co-authored-by: Nliym27 <33742067+liym27@users.noreply.github.com>

[Kunlun]Multi xpu dygraph performance optimization , add distributed.spawn support for multi xpu and some bug-fixes (#31130)

* Add support for mkldnn ops types selection with FLAGS in dygraph

* use regex to match DNNL verbose

* python3 encoding fix

* support use add instead of sum to do gradient accumulation

* add inplace addto pass

* add grad_add op and inplace addto pass

* remove debug code

* code refine

* fix bug when sereral sum ops inserts at same op_idx

* fix Flags type

* add addto attribute for conv3d

* fix ut

* code clean

* fix type

* get use of global 'use_mkldnn' in layer_helper

* update for CI

* update for CI, relu test

* update for CI, relu test added, make FLAGS_use_mkldnn a public flag

* added more strict tests, fixes after review

* fixes after review

* fixes after review, CI stuff

* update the demo code and the doc of varbase.backward.

* update the doc of the fake interface `paddle.fluid.Variable`.

* remove BackwardStrategy.

* add flags_call_stack_level

* update

* refine code

* Remove the NGraph engine from PDPD repository
1. Each operator was removed from the operator's directory
2. Each test was removed from the unittest directory
3. The parallel executor support was removed from the PDPD
4. The CMake file was removed from the PDPD
5. The NG flags were removed from the repository
test=develop

* Remove ngraph from:
1. Cmake file
2. Python file
test=develop

* Add a function to update FLAGS

test=develop

* Add a function to update FLAGS

test=develop

* expr flags

* Add a function to update FLAGS

test=develop

* distinguish public/private vars, test=develop

* fix windows issues, test=develop

* expr flag

* Add functions to get and set FLAGS

test=develop

* Add functions to get and set FLAGS

test=develop

* Add functions to get and set FLAGS

test=develop

* Add functions to get and set flags

test=develop

* Add functions to get and set FLAGS

test=develop

* Add a function to update FLAGS

test=develop

* Add a function to update FLAGS

test=develop

* Add functions to get and set flags in Paddle

test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nsneaxiy <sneaxiy@126.com>

* distinguish public/private vars, test=develop

* fix windows issues, test=develop

* add double grad implementation for dygraph, test=develop

* polish code, add uts, test=develop

* fix place bug, test=develop

* polish codes, add more uts for coverages, test=develop

* add no_grad_set, test=develop

* add star gan ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* add recorded cuda memory apis, fix typo, test=develop

* add more ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix py35 incompatible issues, test=develop

* update ScopeBufferedSSAGraphExecutor&AsyncSSAGraphExecutor&ThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&FastThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelExecutor for fetching unmerged results.

* add the unit test for fetch_unmerged.

* update ut for multi-card and multi-cpu.

* add the error message and the user suggestion in FetchOpHandle. test=develop

* add some debug flags to auto growth allocator, test=develop

* add comments about auto growth, test=develop

* use system allocator in unittests, test=develop

* fix op bugs, test=develop

* fix tensor copy bug when src and dst are the same, test=develop

* add global value getter setter, test=develop

* fix error messages, test=develop