[Inference Tensorrt] Add attr for trt engine and handle the input seq problem for ernie var len. (#33575)

* move semantic checks to op_teller

* more ops

* more ops

* revert block related change

* part1

* revert activation

* remove if

* remove const_cast

* reslove conflict

* remove const_cast

* delete useless var

* replace vlog(1) with vlog(3), replace assert with PADDLE_ENFORCE

* down to 19 files

* support ernie trt-int8 for inference

* fix reshape

* update trt engine addplugin name.

* update

* remove -DSUPPORTS_CUDA_FP16 in cuda.cmake

* comile with cuda9

* add some unittest

* notest;test=coverage

* add unittest for trt plugin swish && split

* update ernie unittest

* fix some error message

* remove repeated judgement of CUDA version in mbEltwiseLayerNormOpConverter

* fix comile errror when CUDA_ARCH_NAME < Pascal"

* fix comile error

* update unittest timeout

* compile with cuda9

* update error msg

* fix code style

* add some comments

* add define IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16

* rename IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16 to CUDA_ARCH_FP16_SUPPORTED

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* fp16 result ok

* change -DWITH_NVINFER_PLUGIN toconfig.EnableTensorRtOSS

* auto detect special slice op converter for ernie with trt oss

* ernie oss only support fp16

* fix special_slice_plugin serialize bug

* matmul in tensorrt ok

* ernie unittest ok

* add matmul tensorrt unittest

* remove demo code

* optimize slice TRT plugin

This patch removes unnecessary barrier for data transfer of needed offset,
so data transfer can be overlap with GPU kernel execution.

This patch also fixes incorrect name of slice plugin. That is, replaces
"layernorm" with "slice"

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* add serialize/deserialize to slice plugin

* add static shape slice trt plugin

* fix slice trt op convertor dynamic shape bug

* fix format by clang-format

* fix pylint format error

* fix problems commented by peiyang
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
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* fix dynamic shape test ut
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* fix comments.
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* fix comments
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* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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