Improve elementwise operators performance in same dimensions

* add support of matmul with multiple head even different width and height

Original matmul with multiple head supports only the mat_a.width == mat_b.height,
in that case, mat_b will be horizontally split. In this patch, we extend the
support when mat_a.width != mat_b.height but mat_a.width/head_number == mat_b.height,
in this case, mab_b will be vertically split.

One example is A is [3, 8], B is [2, 16], head_number is 4. In this
case, A will be split as [3, 2], B will be (vertically) split as
[2, 4]. The final result will be 4 matrix of 4 matrix of [3,4], i.e. [3, 16]

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* add support of matmul with multiple head even different width and height

Original matmul with multiple head supports only the mat_a.width == mat_b.height,
in that case, mat_b will be horizontally split. In this patch, we extend the
support when mat_a.width != mat_b.height but mat_a.width/head_number == mat_b.height,
in this case, mab_b will be vertically split.

One example is A is [3, 8], B is [2, 16], head_number is 4. In this
case, A will be split as [3, 2], B will be (vertically) split as
[2, 4]. The final result will be 4 matrix of 4 matrix of [3,4], i.e. [3, 16]

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* refactor the code of matmul with multiple head even different width and height

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* Implement the operator with sprase matrix multiply

* Update the URL of mklml library.

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* Disable MKLML implematation when using no-linux.

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* Ignore the deprecated status for windows

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* extend matmul op to support multiple head multiplication

With the support of multiple head, the multiplication of two big matrixes is
split into multiplication of several (head_number) small matrixes. e.g. if
Mat A is [3, 24] and Mat B is [24, 4], when multiple A and B with head_number
as 4, Mat A will be split as 4 matrix of [3, 6] and Mat B will be 4 matrix of
[6, 4]. The result of final matrix will be 4 matrix of [3, 4], i.e. [3, 16].

* add_elementwise_add_inplace_test,test=develop

* rename file, test=develop

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* Revert "Optimze Gelu with MKL Erf function (#15770)"

This reverts commit 676995c8.

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* Optimize for gelu operator

* Set up the low accuracy mode of MKL ERF function.

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* Only enable MKLML ERF when OS is linux

* Use the speical mklml version included vmsErf function to verify gelu mkl kernel.

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* Add the CUDA macro to avoid NVCC's compile issue.

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* Add the TODO comments for mklml library modification.

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* Clean Code

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* Add the comment of marco for NVCC compiler.

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* rename and fix blas vsqr

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* update

Rename MatDim to MatDescriptor