cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* fix vlog level and fuse option type
test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* fuse optimizer

* refine profiler && add runtime tracer

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* fix bug && test=develop

* add thread id map && test=develop

* test=develop

* testing

* bug fix

* remove cuda event && refine code && test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* test=develop

* fix windows temp file && test=develop

* test=develop

* fix windows bug && test=develop

* fix start up issue && test=develop

* code polish &&  test=develop

* remove unused code && test=develop

* add some cupti cbid && test=develop

* add FLAGS_multiple_of_cupti_buffer_size && test=develop

* fix compile error && test=develop

* add keyword && test=develop

* fix && test=develop

* code polish && test=develop

* fix warnings

test=develop

* fix enforce test

test=develop

test=develop

Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

test=develop

* fix nccl2 lars dist support

* put lars in momentum op

* add tests lars

* fix ci

* fix cpu kernel

* soft warning

* remove lars in test_recognize_digits.py

* move to another op

* add file

* update api.spec test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix api.spec test=develop

* wip

* wip, finish grad merge ops

* wip, finish graph build

* wip test running

* work on 1 gpu

* workable version

* update

* fix tests

* fuse broadcast op

* fix compile failed

* refine

* add batch merge test mnist

* fix CI test=develop

* fix build

* use independent bn params for batch merge test=develop

* update api.spec

* follow comments and for test

* wip

* refine tests test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* remove startup bn modify test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* fix merge test=develop

* Fix Parallel Exe(VarHandel's version)

* Fix broadcast

* enhance ParallelExecutor stable