* add out_size shape for graph_send_recv

* fix bug in register kernel: no const int& support

* add out_size in infermeta

* change unittest

* fix unittest

* fix out_size default value

* fix doc

* delete arg mapping

* add sig

* move -1 to 0

* move -1 to 0

* add the infer shape meta for the graph_send_recv

* move the infershape code to another file

* [Phi] transfer old kernel to pten kernel for the graph_send_recv op

* update the code for the define of graph_send_recv

* fix the gradient problem for graph_send_recv

* fix the compile problem

* update the enfore message for the windows

* update the code for the compiler

* update compiler problem for the windows

* udpate the code for windows

* fix some format problem

* add cpu version, using set: sum, min, max

* add cpu version: mean

* improve cpu code and fix dynamic memory allcation problem

* fix arg error, add index judge, delete fp16

* fix bug in CudaAtomicMax and CudaAtomicMin

* add CUDA version

* fix grad_op bug for index

* add op test, add correct cpu grad op

* Add correct CUDA Mean grad

* [Add] Successful MEAN and SUM

* [Add] Successful MIN and MAX in CPU

* [Add] Successful MIN and MAX in CUDA

* fix windows dtype ci

* fix ROCM ci by adding HIP flag

* rename fused_gather_scatter to send_recv

* unify name as send and recv

* change zero index return time

* add send_recv incubate api

* fix index data type, add unittest case for API

* delete redundant input tensor

* fix en example and docs, add default value in pool_type

* add shape judge and max grid judge

* fix comment

* fix index type bug

* add const &

* fix en docs

* delete numpy in examples

* add unittest for int input

* fix send_recv comment

* change send_recv to graph_send_recv