* optimize slice TRT plugin

This patch removes unnecessary barrier for data transfer of needed offset,
so data transfer can be overlap with GPU kernel execution.

This patch also fixes incorrect name of slice plugin. That is, replaces
"layernorm" with "slice"

test=develop

* add serialize/deserialize to slice plugin

* add static shape slice trt plugin

* fix slice trt op convertor dynamic shape bug

* fix format by clang-format

* fix pylint format error

* fix problems commented by peiyang
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>
Co-authored-by: NShang Zhizhou <shangzhizhou@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>

* Chery_pick:[Eernie TRT]: add slice op and add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support (#23723)

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
test=develop

* fix dynamic shape test ut
test=develop

* fix comments.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* cherry-pick [BUG]: Head number can only be > 1 on multihead op (#23974)

* support the head number == 1
test=develop

* fix slice op error.
test=develop

* cherry-pick :disable trt test, test=develop (#23984)

test=release/2.0-beta

* add dynamic plugin support.
test=develop

* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
test=develop

* add emb eltwise layernorm
test=develop

* can run dynamic shape ernie
test=develop

* fix ci
test=develop

* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

test=develop

* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop