cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* add multiprocess for dygraph data loader, test=develop

* polish code & add safe gurad, test=develop

* refactor dygraph dataloader & add signal handler, test=develop

* fix member initializer compile error on ci, test=develop

* fix member initializer compile error one more, test=develop

* remove useless config, test=develop

* skip windows incompatible problem, test=develop

* add unittest for coverage, test=coverage

* add more exception unittest case, test=develop

* deal with signal handler coverage, test=develop

* polish code & add signal handler tests, test=develop

* deal with coverage ci problem, test=develop

* split data loader test & coverage ci fix, test=develop

* remove test_imperative_data_loader_with_exception, test=develop

* remove singal process except test case, test=develop

* add exception tests again & remove sample list test, test=develop

* split normal and exception unittests to diff class, test=develop

* polish doc for use_multiprocess effect in static mode, test=develop

* add collective communication library in fleet to replace mpi
* test=develop

* Fix openblas to support compile on Windows when WITH_MKL=OFF

* polish cmake, test=develop

* add current directory to LD_LIBRARY_PATH, test=develop

* add op function generator, test=develop

* add unittest, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix windows compilation problem, test=develop

* add global value getter setter, test=develop

* fix error messages, test=develop

* support dlpack to tensor and implement python interface test=develop

* add unittest for _to_dlpack and from_dlpack test=develop

* add new save load interface; test=develop

* add new save interface; test=develop

* add save load interface ;

* fix save load error;

* fix dygraph set dict bug;

* add save load unit test; test=develop

* fix test_imperative_optimizer bug; test=develop

* fix unitest optimizer bug; test=develop

* fix code coverage; test=develop

* fix converage; test=develop

* add document for apis; test=develop

* fix unitest error; test=develop

* fix save load unit test error; test=develop

* fix error message; test=develop

* change set_parameter set_optimizer to save_dygraph; test=develop

* add load_graph check; test=develop

* fix api spec; test=develop

* refactor dygraph,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* polish code,test=develop

* check windows ci error,test=develop
try to fix windows ci error by np.allclose,test=develop

* polish vlog and profiler, test=develop

* try to fix preceding ops order,test=develop

* test transformer in windows ci, test=develop

* use python c-api to speed up tracer.trace,test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, add ut for debug string and gradient_accumulator

* test=develop, add tests for layer/gradient_accumulator/prepared_op

* test=develop, fix complie error for test_prepared_op

* test=develop, add more ut for dygraph

* test=develop, create API.spec for dygraph api change

* test=develop, refoctor name to make it easier to understand

* test=develop, refoctor name to make it easier to understand

* test=develop, fix multi-gpu failed problem , add Tracer tests, change PADDLEENFORCE to PADDLEENFORCE_EQ

* test=develop, fix ut failed on parallel se-resnext

* test=develop, change one more PADDLE_ENFORCE

* Support looking up embeddings from BoxPS.
* Add a _pull_box_sparse op, for now this op is not exposed to users.
* Add a BoxHelper class, providing 'BeginPass', 'EndPass', 'FeedPass' functions and so on.
* Add 'BoxPSDataset' in python code.
* Add a compile options WITH_BOX_PS and a MACRO PADDLE_WITH_BOX_PS.
* Add UT.
* More concrete information pls refer to: https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/18982

* remove async executor and add data_feed.proto to the deps of train demo

Async exe support communicator

* fix mem leak when converting Tensor to numpy array
test=develop

* remove unused unittest,test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix dygraph bug,test=develop

test=develop

add NCCLParallelContext for parallel dygraph

test=develop

test=develop

test=develop

test=develop

add python inference api

test=develop

test=develop

add module cleanup
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test=develop

fix cmake again
test=develop

Revert "Merge pull request #14798 from PaddlePaddle/revert-14786-revert-14782-revert-14398-imperative"

This reverts commit b1d3a1c8, reversing
changes made to f1fb64b1.

test=develop

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

* Google naming conventions

* Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

* pybind with async_executor

* Naming convention

* remove some flags and unused code

* add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

* clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

* split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

* Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

* refine async_executor_refactor.cc

* add some files about datafeed

* Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

* Interface rework

* add MultiSlotDataFeed

* Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

* update data_feed for add MultiSlotDataFeed

* update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

* fix bug that finish_set_filelist failed in multithread

* delete finish_binding_memory_(flag), because it can not be marked under the current interface

* Fix bug

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

* fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

* remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

* add batch_size check

* add MultiSlotDesc

* Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

* add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

* add CheckFile function in MultiSlotDataFeed

* update something error info

* fix deaded lock bug

* Fix fetch variable

* Merge error

* fix code style in async_executor

* using one lock blocking queue replace two lock blocking queue because of some bugs

* update code style

* add utest for data_feed

* Fix fetch var

* update utest for data_feed for multithread

* update SetFileList info

* fix bug in utest of data_feed

* Add comments for python

* Add comments for python code

* Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

* add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

* Add save_model

* update data_feed_test for multi-type

* add comment for executor_thread_worker

* Remove unused code

* update data_feed_test for generate test data file

* removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

* c++ style check

* update data_feed.cc

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

Google naming conventions

Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

pybind with async_executor

Naming convention

remove some flags and unused code

add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

refine async_executor_refactor.cc

add some files about datafeed

Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

add MultiSlotDataFeed

Interface rework

Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

Fix bug

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

add MultiSlotDesc

Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

Fix fetch variable

fix code style in async_executor

Fix fetch var

add utest for data_feed

Add comments for python

update utest for data_feed for multithread

fix bug in utest of data_feed

Add comments for python code

Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

update data_feed_test for multi-type

Add save_model

update data_feed_test for generate test data file

removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

add comment for executor_thread_worker

Remove unused code

update data_feed.cc

c++ style check

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* Comment away __init__ in async_executor.py

* clang-format fix test=develop

* use PADDLE_THROW instead of exit(-1); use unique_ptr to manage scope var in data_feed_test.cc

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* Add async_executor demo; Remove some methods
test=develop

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* update API.spec

* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix API.spec
test=develop

* Fix windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* FIx windows build error
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix Windows Build
test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* update datafeed

* Fix code style
test=develop

* update data_feed_test for test Tensor test=develop

* Fix code style
test=develop

* Fix windows build failure
test=develop

* Fix code style and windows build failure
test=develop

* Fix PYTHON3.5 build failure
test=develop

* AsyncExecutor API
test=develop