[Cherry-Pick 2.0][Dynamic Inplace] Support ShareInplaceVersionCounterWith for C++ Tensor (#29842) (#30105)

Before this PR, SharePlaceHolderWith share Tensor between different C++ Variable, which meas sharing the data, shape, and inplace_version_counter_ of Tensor.
But in some cases, Sharing data and inplace_version_counter_ but not sharing shape is needed. For example, inplace op reshape, can't share shape.

This PR, discard SharePlaceHolderWith, and expose ShareInplaceVersionCounterWith for C++ Tensor.
This reverts commit b10ecd9d.

* Support ShareInplaceVersionCounterWith to share the same inplace version counter for VarBase

* add topo aware

* resource.h

* topo aware

* format

* memory holder optimize

Change-Id: Ic91af8ac6f2853336d28a9fbbc5e8d0c57b5d05e

* memory holder optimize

Change-Id: I2fd1c14ecc17f5d5ce88b87890381ea801e6367f

* fix large scale memory holder

Change-Id: Ief0992b02b00220e16c72cc637a56e7b5788140f

* fix large scale memory holder

Change-Id: I910142a3952ead643a5604f8f80955f3e6efe655

* support deepcopy for Layer/Tensor/Paramerbase

* fix some code

* update, test=develop (#29559)

* Disable gloo by default (#29805)

* update, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* [Kunlun] PR1:Support one Kunlun card training in parallel executor (#29337)

* [Kunlun] PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor (#29574)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29926)

* add bkcl.so in whl for kunlun (#29947)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29961)
Co-authored-by: NQingshuChen <qingshu.chen714@gmail.com>

* [Complex] Add support for complex grad accumulated (#29889)

* add support for complex grad accumulated

* add unittest for coverage

* update test dtype

* remove useless blank line

* [Complex] Handle complex to real after type promotion (#29855)

* try to add fwd op input dtypes

* refactor base impl

* return tmp_ins after dygraph prepare data

* fix typo found in debug

* polish comment & add complex net test

* revert detail change

* fix unittest failed

* add complex kernel condition control

* fix xpu test failed & polish comment

* polish details by review comments

* Complex op test (#29753)

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* change grad elementwise_mul for complex types (#29757)

* add conj op for complex types

* add conj for complex types

* add more test case

* add conj_op test

* modify conj api and impl

* add complex type for fill_constant_op xpu

* add setConstant for complex type

* remove complex conj test file

* user define grad for test_conj_op

* add test case for static mode of conj api

* modify conj doc

* change input args name to x

* remove useless codes

* conj support real types

* add conj test case for real number

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* modify grad of mul for complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug

* change the grad of div when complex types (#29804)

* change the grad of div when complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug
Co-authored-by: Nchentianyu03 <chentianyu03@baidu.com>

* cherry pick heter ps

* 　CMakeList

* [Inference] FLAGS_call_statck is turned on default when ON_INFER=ON

* cherry-pick 29828

* support some shape in matmul and cast

* modify matmul

* [Dy2stat] Enable jit.save to Save Without Running (#29579)

Enable jit.save to Save Without Running.

* Modify CublasHandleHolder to Fix Random Unittest Failure. test=develop (#29617)

Modify CublasHandleHolder from using PADDLE_ENFORCE_CUDA_SUCCESS to PADDLE_RETRY_CUDA_SUCCESS to fix random unittest failure. We checked that the unittest log showed CUDA allocation error at this file, which may due to GPU not enough. We fixed similar failure in the past, so we applied PADDLE_RETRY_CUDA_SUCCESS here.

* feat: support check_nan_inf for kunlun device

* support kunlun stack

* minor

* add ps table (#29463)

* add ps table

Change-Id: I468a04bd071d21ff52654926fcf4d5f3da19e178

* add service (#29560)

* add service, remove ut on mac

* fix heter_profiler & add heter stop method

* fix code style

* merge pscore

Change-Id: Ie7f60d1cdde6755a0c29db26863c6283e9843d57

* fix cmake

Change-Id: I6773509a7b4ca79139ecc40b7bf3eb318ceff8bb

* fix conflit

Change-Id: I35575be0c96a8520f9d756ea7f1ff0b904a165ba

* fix conflit

Change-Id: Ic926ea0b0d67803226d51241397ba3b510226bfa

* add ps table (#29463)

* add ps table

Change-Id: I468a04bd071d21ff52654926fcf4d5f3da19e178

* add service (#29560)

* add service, remove ut on mac

* fix heter_profiler & add heter stop method

* fix code style

* add nearest_interp_v2 on kunlun

* add nearest_interp_v2 on kunlun
Co-authored-by: NTTerror <tangzhiyi11@users.noreply.github.com>

* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* gen nccl id use socket (#29431)

* fix gen_nccl_id_op_helper compile failed, test=develop (#29614)

* Add complex dtype op (add) test example (#29603)


* add op test case for complex

* polish code details

* add xpu set constant support

* fix argument rror

* remove useless pyc file

* [Complex] Add real & imag op and api for complex tensor (#29672)

* add complex real op & api & unittest

* add imag op & api & unittest

* refactor op impl

* revert simplify writing due to complile failed

* polish details

* polish grad op code

* add conj op for complex types (#29527)

* add conj op for complex types

* add conj for complex types

* add more test case

* add conj_op test

* modify conj api and impl

* add complex type for fill_constant_op xpu

* add setConstant for complex type

* remove complex conj test file

* user define grad for test_conj_op

* add test case for static mode of conj api

* modify conj doc

* change input args name to x

* remove useless codes

* conj support real types

* add conj test case for real number
Co-authored-by: Nchentianyu03 <chentianyu03@baidu.com>

* Fix the dowanload bug in the case of multiple machines (#29551)

* fix the dowanload bug
* add sort for ips

* Fix bug of matmul_v2 for broadcast case (#29599)

* fix bug of matmul_v2 for broadcast

* Rebuild group automatically in dynamic graph distributed (#29255)

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

* fix error message of gather nd (#29521)

 fix #27935 (comment) by QA @OliverLPH (Could you add some MKLDNN-related print log when use FLAGS_use_mkldnn?)

cherry-pick #29618，Fix pip take a long time and failed on windows CI.

* fix expand && concat/transpose to new api

* update xpu_header

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* add nearest_interp on kunlun

* update error message

* Sharding add hybrid-dp feature

* update sharding in distributed_strategy

* update sharding unitest

* revise code format for sharding

* support roi_align & affine_channel for kunlun

* minor

* support mobilenet for kunlun (#29458)

* add xpu ops for training transformer in kunlun (#29539)

* 1.fix matmul bug 2. add one hot

* add xpu error msg
Co-authored-by: Nprocr <procrboo@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Ntaixiurong <taixiurong@126.com>