* add is_test to pooling and activations

add prop_kind support for layers activation. conv and pooling

add a pass that sets is_test to true

add transpiler version of is_test pass

test=develop

* patch test and pass

test=develop

* add pass to analyzer.h

test=develop

* add is_test attr description & pass only on mkldnn

in:
activation_op.cc
batch_norm_op.cc
conv_op.cc
dropout_op.cc
lrn_op.cc
pool_op.cc
sequence_pool_op.cc
softmax_op.cc

* fix is_test handling for activation pool and conv

* change description of is_test for all layers again

* remove GetAttr(use_mkldnn) from pass

* rename correct_mkldnn_test_phase to is_test

and remove dependency on MKLDNN
test=develop

* review fix magic number

* two if(..)s into one

* Check is_test once and pass mkldnn forward prop kind

* dereference shared_ptr with * (without get())

test=develop

* add is_test_pass back

test=develop

* add MKL-DNN placement pass

This patch also refactors conv+bn (includes changes from PR
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/13926)
updated to use the mkldnn-placement-pass.

test=develop

* remove redundant pass list

* add comment on the default first pass

* fix test for conv+relu mkldnn fuse

fix a few other things

* dist transpiler add control dependency var between send and recv

* fix async deps

* follow comments and refine

* fix deps connect for rpc ops

* make enforce a target and dependent on nccl when gpu is enabled

* add some more dependency

ISSUE=4586495

git-svn-id: https://svn.baidu.com/idl/trunk/paddle@1408 1ad973e4-5ce8-4261-8a94-b56d1f490c56