* [ROCM] update fluid operators for rocm (part5), test=develop

* address review comments, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* 1. add embedding eltwise layernorm fuse
2. add embedding eltwise layernorm op
3. refine inplace_add_relu
4. refine fc_eltwise_layernorm
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* 1. refine fc
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* fix comments
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* fix comments

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* Add fc padding to solve mkl performance
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* fix gpu pass and error information
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* fix fc_fuse_pass_test
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* fix error information
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* fix error information
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* fix name and add fc op padding test
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* fix attributes
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* optimize fc padding
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* fix test
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* Refine the codes related to fc op.

* Add GPU implementation for fc functor.

* Apply fc_fuse_pass in GPU inference.
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* Change the cmake for fc op.

* Change PADDLE_ENFORCE to PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ.

* Add an attribute to set the activation type in fc_op.

* Enhance the unittest of fc_op.
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* Remove the declaration of FCOpGrad back to the header file.
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* Set default value for newly added arguments in test_fc_op.
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