fix bug to support dropout eval grad computing. cherry-pick #37305.

功能：本PR的目标是提高attention模块的计算性能。
为了减少框架层对op的调度开销，本PR通过在C++层手动实现attention模块，对外提供attention 大op；
为了减少防存开销，本PR采取了两种优化方法：
（1）在q,k,v计算时通过共享输入X，将该处的gemm，transpose和bias add从三次调用减少为一次；
（2）使用kernel融合优化技术，在不同cuda kernel之间通过寄存器传输数据；

* Revert "Add fused_dropout wrapper to ease use. (#36185) (#36640)"

This reverts commit 05d7e2fd.

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu (#35820)

* [HIP] fix op not support AMD GPU bug, the flag PADDLE_WITH_ROCM is invalid

* [HIP] fix op not support AMD GPU bug, the flag PADDLE_WITH_ROCM is invalid

* [HIP] fix op not support AMD GPU bug

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu

* [hybrid] seed and dropout op support force-cpu

* [hybrid] fix seed ci failed issue

* add AsExtra for force_cpu of seed op

* Add fused_dropout wrapper to ease use. (#36185)

* [hybrid] static model parallel dropout support deterministic RandomSeedGenerator (#36228)
Co-authored-by: Nxiayanming <41795079@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: NLi Min <11663212+limin2021@users.noreply.github.com>

In fused_attention op and fused_ffn op, the fused bias_add+dropout+residual+layernorm kernel or bias_add+dropout+residual kernel is used. To ease the use of this kernel, we provide a wrapper in this PR.
1.To reuse the increment computing code, we exact the corresponding code to "GetSeedDataAndIncrement" routine in dropout_impl_util.h.
2.The fused_dropout_helper.h provides the fused dropout kernel wrapper.

Note: the test of this warper will be provided in the following fused_attention_op and fused_ffn PRs.