Cherry pick PR #30520 .
Fix error message of Inplace strategy.

[cherry-pick] support layer_norm fp16 in dygraph amp (#30430)

cherry-pick #30553
fix bug of multicard grad ncclAllReduce, the gradient accumulater of parameters should be keep order, otherwsie, it will influence multicard ncclAllReduce of grad.

Cherry-pick PR 30103. Add Inplace strategy (Output reuse Input Varbase) in dygraph (#30103) (#30496)

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* change to tensor copy sync

* change to tensor copy sync

* make copy_to safe when use TensorCopy

* refine code

* add ut

* add cudapinned garbagecollector

* add testcase: cpu place -> cuda pinned place

* simplify prepared op impl to improve performance

* fix kunlun compile error

* continue fix kunlun compile error

* only transform diff place when dtype diff

* fix failed unittests

* remove useless file

* polish impl by review comment

* support dygraph in xpu place; test=develop

* fix cpu/gpu compile error; test=develop

* fix compile error; test=develop

* fix xpu compile error; testd=develop

* support deepcopy for Layer/Tensor/Paramerbase

* fix some code

* [Complex] Add support for complex grad accumulated (#29889)

* add support for complex grad accumulated

* add unittest for coverage

* update test dtype

* remove useless blank line

* [Complex] Handle complex to real after type promotion (#29855)

* try to add fwd op input dtypes

* refactor base impl

* return tmp_ins after dygraph prepare data

* fix typo found in debug

* polish comment & add complex net test

* revert detail change

* fix unittest failed

* add complex kernel condition control

* fix xpu test failed & polish comment

* polish details by review comments

* Complex op test (#29753)

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* change grad elementwise_mul for complex types (#29757)

* add conj op for complex types

* add conj for complex types

* add more test case

* add conj_op test

* modify conj api and impl

* add complex type for fill_constant_op xpu

* add setConstant for complex type

* remove complex conj test file

* user define grad for test_conj_op

* add test case for static mode of conj api

* modify conj doc

* change input args name to x

* remove useless codes

* conj support real types

* add conj test case for real number

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* delete no need to calculate inputs in dygraph op_test

* modify grad of mul for complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug

* change the grad of div when complex types (#29804)

* change the grad of div when complex types

* fix the grads of inputs args order not match bug
Co-authored-by: Nchentianyu03 <chentianyu03@baidu.com>

* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* Fix the dowanload bug in the case of multiple machines (#29551)

* fix the dowanload bug
* add sort for ips

* Fix bug of matmul_v2 for broadcast case (#29599)

* fix bug of matmul_v2 for broadcast

* Rebuild group automatically in dynamic graph distributed (#29255)

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

* fix error message of gather nd (#29521)

* use has_grad instead of train_mode

* add vlog for debug

* fix ut

* fix ut

* fix the warning of reducer (#29323)

* fix warning of fleet (#29317)

* Fix doc of fleet api (#29282)

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* fix coverage

* fix api doc

* fix CI unittest

* fix CI unittest

* fix unitest

* empty tensor does’t need inner_var_

* fix some error message

* Add a class TensorInplaceVersion to count the inplace version and put it in framework::Tensor instead of Allocation or Variable.

* Add a new attribute `_inplace_version` for VarBase.

* Raise exception if an inplace operation can result in incorrect gradient computation.

* Add a new interface _bump_inplace_version() for VarBase to bump the version whenever the Tensor is modified through an inplace operation.

* For api assign, call _bump_inplace_version() when it's an inplace operation inn dynamic mode.

* Use original var_wrapper if the inplace_version is not changed.

* Replace SnapshotVarWrapperList with SnapshotVarWrapper to optimize performane.

* add reducer

* refine envent for memorycopy

* add concat&split for allreduce

* apply concat & split for fuse tensor

* fix nccl dep

* fix the untest, compile problem and ddp initialize problem

* fix untest for mac & add some comments & solve the repeated param in sublayers

* fix untest for windows & fix document

* split train_mode and has_grad

* fix format

* fix ci problems

* fix sample code

* add base hook classes and reduce hook impl

* fix constructor typo

* polish comment format

* refactor baisc hook class design

* polish design details

* remove slelected rows all reduce over height check

* polish unittest

* add retry for dygraph parallel socket bind

* change to loop always

* fix writing error

* nccl init support hostname and ip; test=develop

* add sumary feature

* refine printting tensor

* add sci_mode

* add sample code

* fix indent error

* fix _format_item

* polish code

* support item indent

* add ut

* set place for ut

* fix py2 issue

* fix ut

* Add support for mkldnn ops types selection with FLAGS in dygraph

* use regex to match DNNL verbose

* python3 encoding fix

* refine err msg

* follow comments

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* get use of global 'use_mkldnn' in layer_helper

* update for CI

* update for CI, relu test

* update for CI, relu test added, make FLAGS_use_mkldnn a public flag

* added more strict tests, fixes after review

* fixes after review

* fixes after review, CI stuff

Use `Tensor` instead of `Variable`  in the doc of paddle.grad.

* update the demo code and the doc of varbase.backward.

* update the doc of the fake interface `paddle.fluid.Variable`.

* remove BackwardStrategy.

* support Baidu AI Accelerator
  * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun

* support xpu op in separate file
 * test=kunlun

* update XPU error message and remove duplicated code

 * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun

* enable mkldnn layout conversion

* review fix: remove tmp_place

* fix test mkldnn swish

* add UT for PrepareData CPU->MKLDNN

* add #ifdef PADDLE_WITH_MKLDNN

* Force-push commit
Co-authored-by: Ngrygielski <adam.grygielski@gmail.com>

* add unchaged infershape function

* add broadcast infershape function

* fix bug

* rename infershape functions

* add UnaryOpUnchangedInferShapeCheckAxis

* add error message

* add test for common infer shape functions

* dont update existed ops

* dont update op_desc.h

* add more test

* add error check, refine error message

* add auto_cast, test=develop

* add loss scaler, test=develop

* add comments, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* do not set flags automatically, test=develop

* fix custom op bug, test=develop

* add more test, test=develop

* refine enable logic, test=develop

* enable amp test with GPU, test=develop

* add unittest

* add test for found_inf

* follow comments

* follow comments

* remove global variable, use singleton

* add some notes

* update comments

* update comments

* update comments

* add use_dynamic_loss_scaling argument

* refine found_inf

* refine found_inf

* Add some error messages for the op without double grads.

* fix the test_imperative_double_grad UT.