cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* add half_async in the communicator
* fix DistributedStrategy

* polish error message of parallel executor, test=develop

* change PADDLE_ENFORCE, test=develop

* add bn and relu fuse pass

* add op attr assert and dtype assert

* fix some inputs&&outputs bugs for the fused op and pattern.

* add the unittest for fuse_bn_act_pass. test=develop

* use normative enforce statements. test=develop

* add the cpu test. test=develop

* add the support of batch_size=1 for the bn with relu op. test=develop

* add the error type for paddle throws. test=develop

* add fused_batch_norm_act and fused_batch_norm_act_grad to op_has_unsed_vars_white_list. test=develop

The fixed bugs:

1. The condition sub-graph is not pruned
2. When backward graph is extremely simple, the whole backward ops are pruned.

* polish infer shape registry, test=develop

* modify some operators registry, test=develop

* fix ref_cnt pass, test=develop

* add cpp unittests to reference_count_pass, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix warnings oof gcc 8 compilation, test=develop

* fix boost::bad_get, test=develop

* refine PADDLE_ENFORCE, test=develop

Add examples for error message writing specification - PreconditionNotMet, Unimplemented, Unavailable (#21137)

* add examples for error spec, test=develop

* change ENFORCE to ENFORCE_**, test=develop

* add examples for error msg spec, test=develop

* change ENFORCE to ENFORCE_**, test=develop

* fix error, test=develop

* support no need buffer vars in dygraph, test=develop

* fix inference compilation error, test=develop

* update no_need_buffer_vars_inference, test=develop

* add unittests for no_need_buffer_vars_context, test=develop

* refine no_need_buffer_vars by return ref, test=develop

* polish some codes, test=develop

* update pserver decay blocks

* update distributed notify handler

* refactor dygraph,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* polish code,test=develop

* check windows ci error,test=develop
try to fix windows ci error by np.allclose,test=develop

* polish vlog and profiler, test=develop

* try to fix preceding ops order,test=develop

* test transformer in windows ci, test=develop

* use python c-api to speed up tracer.trace,test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, add ut for debug string and gradient_accumulator

* test=develop, add tests for layer/gradient_accumulator/prepared_op

* test=develop, fix complie error for test_prepared_op

* test=develop, add more ut for dygraph

* test=develop, create API.spec for dygraph api change

* optimize grad maker; test=develop

* optimize grad maker

* test

* grad make optim; test=develop

* fix unittest bugs; test=develop

* add dygraph grad op maker and split_op

* grad op maker refactor; test=develop

* add dygraph grad maker; test=develop

* fix op deformable_conv_v1_op bug; test=develop

* fix deformable_conv prroi pool bugs;

* fix new op grad op maker bug; test=develop

* fix split by ref bug; test=develop

* fix dygraph auto prune bug; test=develop

* fix test_trace bug; test=develop

* fix fused emb seq pool bug; test=develop

* remove useless code in op_desc file; test=develop

* remove useless code, StrVarBaseNode; test=develop

* fix review issues; test=develop

* fix rank_loss grad maker; test=develop

* remove flag in VarBase; test=develop

* fix distributed_notify_op compile bug ; test=develop

* fix reshape op double grad; test=develop

* fix expand as op; test=develop

* add impertive type_defs.h for demo_train; test=develop

* fix inference lib cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix infernce_lib; test=develop

* fix inference cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* remove condition dygraph grad maker, modify local name; test=develop

* fix split grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix pyramid_op bug; test=develop

* change travis time out limit; test=develop

* restore travis; test=develop

* change timeout limit; test=develop

* add support to gcc8, add docker env test=develop

test=develop

* add a base class for the Communicator
* add AsyncCommunicator Impl for async distributed training

test=develop

test=develop

* Add RecordHistoryLocalExecScopes
test=develop

* fix memory reuse bug on feeding variables, test=develop

* add comments to reference count members, test=develop

* fix warning info
test=develop

* fix bug of all_reduce_deps_pass
test=develop

* Open fuse all reduce op
test=develop

* Add Fuse optimization op log

* Add log in fuse_optimizer op pass and fuse all_reduce op pass

* replace with boost::optional<bool>
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* fix code coverage
test=develop

TemporaryAllocator is a singleton used for allocating memory for Cudnn. Since it is a singleton, we can delete it for better performance in memory.

We replace TemporaryAllocator by CUDADeviceContextAllocator and CUDADeviceContextAllocation, which uses stream callback to delete the memory allocated for the stream to avoid singleton.

Also added data_feed_proto to operator to fix CI in CPU compilation

* fix vlog level and fuse option type
test=develop

* Enable fused_all_reduce_op_handle support GPU and CPU Gradients

* merge_empty_lod_tensor, test=develop

* fix multiclass_nms, test=develop

* refine API.spec, test=develop

* add unittest case for fetch, test=develop

* add lod tensor test, test=develop

* return index for multiclass_nms, test=develop

* add api for multiclass_nms2

* update API.spc, test=develop

* refine api doc, test=develop

* fix test_detection.py, test=develop

* polish code, test=develop

* add more unittest case, test=develop