* fix bugs of reducer

* update

* update

* add fused_bias_dropout_residual_ln op and layer.

* fix alltoall

* rename utest

* Reduce test case for test_tensordot

* Fix CI errors

* Refactor test_tensordot

* Add test_static

* Fix CI errors

* [Eager] fix sharding under eager mode

* [Eager] fix several sharding test under eager mode

* Recover using _test_eager_guard

* Ensured fleet.init under legacy

* Ensured fleet.init under legacy

* Fix CI issue, re-definition strategy and call fleet.init() in stage2_offload

* Modified dygraph_group_sharded_api.py, move fleet.init to a better line

* add gradient merge for DistributedFusedLamb

* use master acc gradient

* fix CI ut

* polish

* remove math_function_impl.h change

* fix test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* try to fix XPU/NPU CI

* add gm ut

* full api fix

* when out is None, go old dygraph mode

* by static check

* first version: support 2-inputs forwards. TODO: 1. backward  2. BroadCast  3. MultiVariable

* time out -> 120

* Fix leading dimension setting error in fused_gemm_epilogue_grad_op.

* Add dyload to cuBlasLt functions.

* Added cublasLtMatmulAlgoGetHeuristic to improve performance.

* Added FLAGS_cublaslt_exhaustive_search_times to cublasLt epilogue

* Added UTs to FLAGS_cublaslt_exhaustive_search_times

* Added warmup runs in algo searching of Gemm epilogue.

* Update copyright and documents.

* Fixed error handling.

* fix utest

* fix time

* Add yaml for deformable_conv and deformable_conv_v1 OPs

* Add UT

* Add to skipped_phi_api list for infrt

* Sitch some dy2st UT to eager mode

* Fix test_lstm and remove test_transformer

* Run test_resnet_v2 in old dy mode

* ignore some failed test for KL2
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* [Eager] Support test_layers's test cases switch to eager mode

* Update batch_norm _C_ops action to fix CI

* Use None instead of new EmptyTensor

* Updated var name

* Make sure to switch eager mode, Fix Coverage_CI

* Remove _non_static_mode statement

* Remove batch_norm dispensable input statement

* Polish batch_norm code

* Fix CI issue

* support process group in dp with fleet api

* update

* fix uts

* update

* add nms op and batched_nms api

* enable new executor by default

* enable stream safe allocator

* test=document_fix;test=coverage

* do not use scope in op kernel

* fit empty program for new executor

* fix communication depend

* fix test_sync_batch_norm

* skip unsupported place

* refine datatransfer

* fit for dirtributed program

* fix dependencpy

* fix some ut

* [Dygraph] Support sparse tensor in refactored reducer

* add uts

* refactor

* update

* fix bugs

* add infershape and forward yaml

* add final_state call

* add base unittests

* add backward yaml and test

* fix without softmax test error

* add cross_entropy test

* Add yaml for reduce_sum OP

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

Add new APIs for GPU memory monitoring (max_memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved, memory_allocated, memory_reserved) (#38657)

* Add new API memory_reserved

* Add memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved and max_memory_allocater

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI error

* Enhance UT

* Add FLAGS_memory_stats_opt

* Add STATS macro functions

* Add StatAllocator

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* Fix CI errors

* suppor inplace in tensor_method_setitem

* delete bump_inplace_version

* optimize inplace unittest

* fix

* fix setitem bug

* update eager_generator

* optimize inplace unittest

* little change

* add uts for EagerReducer

* add more uts

* fix bugs

* fix bugs

* modify

* modify uts

* fix bugs

* update

* update

* update

* solve conflicts and merge

* add some other uts

* modify time of uts

* update

* update

* update

* remove uts of resnet

* refactor eager flags

* fix flags error when we switch from eager to dygraph

* fix ci problem

* fix ci

* fix ci

* merge develop and fix code style

* merge develop and fix code style

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* fix op test error

* merge develop

* [Eager] Support eager grad interface, draft version

* Support eager grad interface with allow_unused and multi startup_op

* Fix code format

* Fix allow_unused case, return PyNone if tensor not initialize

* Support output's stop_gradient related to create_graph

* Support grad exception case in eager mode, fix coverage CI

* Update ToPyObject, return PyNone if not initialize

* AccumulationNode add FLAGS_retain_grad_for_all_tensor

* Fix ci issue

* Fix CI issue

* fix, use core.eager.Tensor

* Add func SetBufferSlotRankZeros for GradTensorHolder

* Support retain_graph by using ClearTensorWrappers

* Support retain_graph by using ClearTensorWrappers

* Update retain_graph and no_grad_vars related test case

* Update code gen logic for ClearTensorWrappers

* Fix by override statement

* fix override func args

* Support retain_graph, update unit tests

* Updated ClearTensorWrappers logic

* fix grad python interface

* Use deep copy and update unit tests

* Polish code

* Polish code

* Fix CI issue, Deep copy only use when user set grad_tensors

* Fix CI, use Backward instead RunBackward

* Fix CI, Declare kernel explicitly in test file

* Polish, remove vector of TensorWrapper

* Refactor the logic of grad/backward, polish codes

* Update code after merge upstream develop

* Polish after merge upstream develop

* Update to adapt new GradNodeBase superclass

* Fix error introduced during conflict resolution

* support inplace strategy in eager_fluid state

* solve conflict

* nothing

* Update purify potential_startup_nodes logic

* Fix errors

* Polish code

* Remove useless args for ToPyObject

* Remove useless TensorWrappersSet

* fix record conflict

* Fix code-format, re-install pre-commit

* fix tensor_wrapper bug

* Fix pre-process logic for potential_startup_ops

* Update unit tests, use eager mode

* Fix conflicts

* fix unittest timeout

* little change
Co-authored-by: NWeilong Wu <veyron_wu@163.com>