Use int64_t in GetGpuLaunchConfig1D and ElementwiseKernel as index type to support large tensor. (#43506)

* Change some data type from int to int64_t in GetGpuLaunchConfig1D to support large tensor.

* Use int64_t in ElementwiseKernel as index type to support large tensor.

* fix starganv2

* fix starganv2 stop_gradient end error

* fix edvr_starganv2

* fix mul kernel to fix optional ddx

* fix typo

* change logic for optimize

* modifty

* optimize the backward speed of EinsumOp

* add cache optimizer for einsum op

* EinsumOp: fix new dygraph mode error

* fix bug

* change Cache->InnerCache

* fix code

* fix

* add nan inf utils for einsum op

* add as_extra

* memory optimizer for einsum

* update code

* fix stride_slice bug

* fix bug

* use GpuMemcpy and GpuMemset

* sparse convert kernel support double dispatch by indices dtype

* cudaMemcpyKind->gpuMemcpyKind

* fix depthwise conv yaml error

* fix depthwise conv double grad error

* make all phi kernels to 2(host/device) static libraries directly

* fix calling kernel_declare

* fix compile

* fix cpu compile

* fix rocm compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu kp compile

* fix inference compile

Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

* move_group_norm

* move group norm backward

* fix code format

* modify code according comment

Transpose optimization with assitant of  Chengdu Supercomputing Center and auto_tune operation (#42704)

* support heter reindex

* add unittest, fix bug

* add comment

* delete empty line

* refine example

* fix codestyle

* add disable static

* extend forward fast_ln_kernel to support more column values.

* add yaml

* fix infrt compile bugs

* add conv3d yaml

* add conv3d_grad, conv3d_double_grad

* add final_state_conv3d test case

* add conv3d double test case

* add depthwise_conv2d grad yaml

* add depthwise_conv2d double grad test case

* modify the order of args

* add depthwise_conv2d_grad_grad config

* fix assign kernel copy impl

* fix test failed

* rrelu逻辑部分

* unregistered op kernel (unresolved)

* commit before merge

* 丰富测试用例

* 修复rrelu-sig的bug

* 修复cpu环境测试

* 修改拼写错误

* 修改code format

* 尝试优化测试用例timeout的问题

* 优化测试用例

* 移除seed, 优化随机函数

* update en doc for rrelu

* fix rrelu en docs, test=document_fix

* add paper link for en docs, test=document_fix

* udpate en doc

* add r,test=document_fix

* change einsum_v2 as default and add new flags: FLAG_einsum_opt=1|0

* make EInsumOP support bf16

* add unittest for BF16

* add condition for test_BF16

* fix bugs

* fix

* nanmedian op

* 修改cuda kernel的bug

* 修复count_if在其他硬件平台不兼容

* 修复某些cpu硬件不兼容

* 修复某些cpu硬件不兼容

* 修复isnan判断

* 兼容numpy低版本不支持全部nan的情况

* 兼容numpy低版本不支持全部nan的情况

* fix code example

* fix api comment error

* 修改反向传播逻辑以及c++处理逻辑

* 完成修改建议

* typo pre_dim

* update en docs, test=document_fix

* remove numpy in en doc, test=document_fix

* add r,test=document_fix

* 添加api到all

* follow advice from chenwhql

* 1st commit

* fix usless change in header transpose_kernel_h file

* add sync

* addmm supports 1-d input

* fix coverage

* fix

* more ut

* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* move instance_norm

* change mutable_data

* fix compile bugs

* fix maybe-uninitialized warning

* fix compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix npu compile

* fix infer compile

* fix compile

* fix compile

* change logic for optimize

* modifty

* optimize the backward speed of EinsumOp

* add cache optimizer for einsum op

* EinsumOp: fix new dygraph mode error

* fix bug

* change Cache->InnerCache

* fix code

* fix

* add nan inf utils for einsum op

* add as_extra

* Compatible with v2.3 EinsumOp

* remove dispensable

* move grad_add

* fix unittest bugs

* fix compile bugs