* add gradient merge for DistributedFusedLamb

* use master acc gradient

* fix CI ut

* polish

* remove math_function_impl.h change

* fix test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* try to fix XPU/NPU CI

* add gm ut

* add cast ops before and after unsupported fp16 ops.

* Keep partial net in FP32 pattern.

* Support check_finite_and_unscale and update_loss_scaling for FP16 calculation mode.

* Add fp16 support for adam op.

* add multi precision attr for adam.

* Fix the bug of test_multi_precision_fp16_train UT.

* Code format for CI.

* Fix the redefine error about MPTypeTrait on windows.

* fix bugs of the _create_accumulators func in Momentum.

* fix bug when inserting post cast op.

* Add the update_loss_scaling op in allow_set of UnusedVarCheck.

* Update for ci coverage.

* Add some doc for OptimizerWithMixedPrecision.

* Fix the code style.

* Imporve the doc of `amp_init`.

* Change for fp16 testing if users have the infer program defined in separate way.

* remove tensor copy in the update_loss_scaling op

* not use thrust.

* fix some cuda memory access error.

Update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op and add an updating_loss_scaling op for static graph amp training. (#26240)

* update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op for static_amp.

* use amp_check_finite_and_scale in static graph amp.

* update grads to zero when grads own infinite values(as for amp_checkout_finite_and_scale op).

* add update_loss_scaling op in cpp.

* add update_loss_scaling_op unit test.

* update the doc of the check_finite_and_unscale op

* Update the process of gradients updating skipping if the gradients have infinite values.

* update the way to zero grads.

* update test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* add log info when find infinite grads.

* add the unit test for UpdateLossScaling Layer.