* Add support for mkldnn ops types selection with FLAGS in dygraph

* use regex to match DNNL verbose

* python3 encoding fix

* support use add instead of sum to do gradient accumulation

* add inplace addto pass

* add grad_add op and inplace addto pass

* remove debug code

* code refine

* fix bug when sereral sum ops inserts at same op_idx

* fix Flags type

* add addto attribute for conv3d

* fix ut

* code clean

* fix type

* update the demo code and the doc of varbase.backward.

* update the doc of the fake interface `paddle.fluid.Variable`.

* remove BackwardStrategy.

* add flags_call_stack_level

* update

* refine code

* Added DNNL cache management for DyGraph

* move FLAGS_use_mkldnn to more general CMakeLists, getu use of the flag in ClearGradients

* missing file

* Fixes after review

* Bringing back original idea of place for 'use_mkldnn' flag to be accessible from platform nad imperative.

* Removed duplicate and added docs

* Fixes for CI

* add the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* refactor the thread_local_allocator, test=develop

* provides option setting strategy, test=develop

Correct the name [`FLAGS_sync_nccl_allreduce`](https://www.paddlepaddle.org.cn/documentation/docs/zh/advanced_guide/flags/others_cn.html#flags-sync-nccl-allreduce) based on the information from our official website.

* add recorded cuda memory apis, fix typo, test=develop

* add more ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix py35 incompatible issues, test=develop

* test=develop, communicator_is_sgd_optimizer flags

* Add RecordHistoryLocalExecScopes
test=develop

Add document annotations for FLAGS that need to be open to external developers test=develop (#19692)

Add document annotations for FLAGS that need to be open to external developers