[oneDNN] Fix to conv2d grad with groups (#27006)

* - Added fix to mobilenet

* - compilation fix

* - Fix to conv2d grad oneDNN with groups

test=develop

paddle/fluid/operators/mkldnn/conv_mkldnn_op.cc

@@ -1055,7 +1055,11 @@ class ConvMKLDNNGradOpKernel : public paddle::framework::OpKernel<T> {
       astream.wait();
 
       filter_grad->set_layout(DataLayout::kMKLDNN);
-      filter_grad->set_format(GetMKLDNNFormat(*diff_weights_memory_p));
+      // in OneDNN groups in convolution are treated as separate dimension
+      // which is not the case in paddlepaddle
+      auto filter_fmt = GetMKLDNNFormat(*diff_weights_memory_p);
+      filter_grad->set_format(platform::MKLDNNFormatForSize(
+          g > 1 ? weights_tz.size() - 1 : weights_tz.size(), filter_fmt));
     }
     if (input_grad) {
       auto weights_memory_p = handler.AcquireWeightsMemoryFromDataPrimitive(