cherry-pick (#21201) to release/1.6 (#21306)

cudaStreamSynchronize randomly hang when used in multi-thread environment, replace it with cudaStreamQuery API on windows

paddle/fluid/platform/device_context.cc

@@ -313,14 +313,23 @@ CUDADeviceContext::~CUDADeviceContext() {
 Place CUDADeviceContext::GetPlace() const { return place_; }
 
 void CUDADeviceContext::Wait() const {
-  cudaError_t e_sync = cudaStreamSynchronize(stream_);
-  if (e_sync != 0) {
+  cudaError_t e_sync = cudaSuccess;
+#if !defined(_WIN32)
+  e_sync = cudaStreamSynchronize(stream_);
+#else
+  while (e_sync = cudaStreamQuery(stream_)) {
+    if (e_sync == cudaErrorNotReady) continue;
+    break;
+  }
+#endif
+
+  if (cudaSuccess != e_sync) {
     LOG(FATAL) << "cudaStreamSynchronize " << cudaGetErrorString(e_sync)
                << " errno: " << e_sync;
   }
 
   cudaError_t e_get = cudaGetLastError();
-  if (e_get != 0) {
+  if (cudaSuccess != e_get) {
     LOG(FATAL) << "cudaGetLastError  " << cudaGetErrorString(e_get)
                << " errno: " << e_get;
   }