* update optimizer (#26711)

* update doc

* update doc

* fix optimizer sample code

* add default value for adamw weight_decay

* fix adamw

* change LearningRateDecay to _LRScheduler

* fix adamw;notest

* fix load;notest

* remove file

* bug fix

* fix code style

* bug fix

* add ut

* adamw support weight_decay=0

* fix ut

* fix set_lr doc

* fix doc

* change parameters place

* fix sample code