* Chery_pick:[Eernie TRT]: add slice op and add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support (#23723)

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
test=develop

* fix dynamic shape test ut
test=develop

* fix comments.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* cherry-pick [BUG]: Head number can only be > 1 on multihead op (#23974)

* support the head number == 1
test=develop

* fix slice op error.
test=develop

* cherry-pick :disable trt test, test=develop (#23984)

test=release/2.0-beta