[cherry-pick] [PHI] Migrate concat+grad, expand+grad, fill_constant … oneDNN kernels (#45863) (#46727)

* [PHI] Migrate concat+grad, expand+grad, fill_constant, nearest_interp and bilinear_interp oneDNN kernels (#45863)

* Migrate concat+grad, expand+grad, fill_constant, nearest_interp_v2 and bilinear_interp_v2 oneDNN kernels to PHI

* Remove old namespace variable

* Fix invalid out dims error

* Add mutable_data method to concat output

* Add check for -1 dim before computing out_dims

* Capitalize oneDNNGetDataType function name

* Change fill_constant kernel to correct PHI kernel

* Attempt to fix dims error

* Fix fill_constant (full) kernel

* update dependencies
Co-authored-by: NPiotr Paturej <48731682+piotrekobi@users.noreply.github.com>

* added nearest interp v2 bf16

* disabled bilinear interp nhwc test

* added skipping UT for gpu

* added NHWC support

* removed unnecessary statements

* minor change

* CI fix

* added appropriate changes to interpolate_v1

* fix after review

* minor change

* minor change

* revert unwanted deletions

* CI fix

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* - disabled interpolate onednn

* - compilation fix

* - draft of batch_norm cache disabling

* - fixes to UT

* Add mkldnn nearest_interp and bilinear_interp op
* don't run mkldnn interpolate in default
* add interpolate_mkldnn_pass