cherry-pick #29618，Fix pip take a long time and failed on windows CI.

* fix win ci failure, test=develop

* add ci test, test=develop

* open unittests on windows

* open GPU unittest on windows

* add unittest and check unittest for windows

* fix lstm OP compile error on windows

* open a part of GPU unittest for windows

* open a part of GPU unittest for windows

* add monitoring for executive ut at night

* fix some error for paddle_build.bat

* fix some error

* fix some error in windows

* fix some error on windows

* clear clcache cache file and reopen clcache, test=develop

* reopen clcache, test=develop

* fix judge bug of errorlevel

* fix some error

* fix optimizer init

* Enhance the detection of whether to keep the build directory

* Enhance the detection of whether to keep the build directory

* disable ut quickly

* fix some error

* fix some error

* install urllib2 package

* use requests package instead of urllib2

* fix error caused by windows regular parameter

* fix error on windows

* fix some error

* fix with format error

* show disable ut in log

* fix some error

* fix some error

* add the handling of error in executing get_quickly_disable_ut

* add pip new requirements to windows

* Increase the conditions that restrict system installation

* add unittest count of windows

* Reduce the number of retries

* add timeout unittests retry

* modifed parameter use

* add failed unittests retry on win system

* modified the value of retry times

* Modify data download function, and support unittests of inference APIs on windows, test=develop

* The import error compatible with py2 and py3, and fix unittests problems of inference APIs on Windows, test=develop

show unittest time even if unittest failed

* turn on WITH_INFERENCE_API_TEST

* Count the time and packet size on windows

* fix conflit

* fix conflit

* fix conflit

* fix date-time funciton

set default python3,fix incompatible,cache dir for third party,unify error code,for windows (#26178)

* set default python3 for paddle windows,test=win

* set default python3,cache dir for third party,error code,test=win

* fix some incompatible

* fix some error

* set virtual environment,test=win

* Fixed compile warning about incorrect compile options,fix paddle_build.bat

* fix paddle_build.bat to more safe

windows CI scripts for xly