[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

* add parallel build script to ci test=develop
* 1. classify the test case as single card/two cards/multiple cards type
   2. run test case according to the run type

test=develop

* Fix a bug related to dispensable inputs and refine the inference unittest.

* Fix the use of dispensable inputs in reshape_op.

* Polish the enforce statements.

* Fix an English writing typo.

* add test float16 inference accuracy example

* complete the test

* clean code

* add argument parse and refine tests

* add shell script

* add float16 benchmark code

* refine code

* prepare for contrib/float16

* put things in contrib float16 folder

* update benchmark result

* further update benchmark report

* add float16 inference report

* update report

* add float16 transpiler

* fix feed fetch target names mismatch

* fix cast op input change issue

* fix program desc flush error

* fix inconsistent var names in block desc bug

* code clean up

* add float16 infernce C++ example and fix prune bug

* Add USE_OP of all operators and kernels and remove ARCHIVE_START/END in CMakeLists.txt of inference unittests.

* Remove ARCHIVE_START/END when linking inference shared library.

* Disable some fluid related cmake operations for cross-compiling.