Add Support for SelectedRows for Transpose OP and Fix a Bug That SelectedRows Cannot be Supported in SimNet (#25536)

This PR fixes a bug that SelectedRows cannot be supported in SimNet. The reason of this bug is that dygraph basic_engine didn't copy var's type when the var needs to be accumulated during backward. So when a var is SelectedRows and needs to be accumulated, like SimNet which calls net for two times, the var's type will be changed to default LoDTensor thus bug happens. To fix it, we just also copy the type.

Without this PR, the accumulated SelectedRows parameters in dygraph will be changed into LoDTensor. So when we fixed the bug of supporting SelectedRows in SimNet, we found `test_imperative_lod_tensor_to_selected_rows` failed and threw the error that SelectedRows was not supported for Transpose OP. To fix it, too, this PR also added support for SelectedRows for Transpose OP.

* Modify tmp var name prefix in dygraph test=develop

* refine comment test=develop

* support selectedrows allreduce in multi-cards dygraph, test=develop

* remove useless import modules in unittests, test=develop

* add nccl cmake to get nccl version, test=develop

* add if-condition to compiled correctly, test=develop

* add detail version parseing for old nccl, test=develop

* polish camke details, test=develop

* fix remove test cmake error, test=develop

* fix cmake condition, test=develop

* change unittest camke list, test=develop

* fix unittest cmake rule, test=develop, test=framep0

* support gradient accumulation of fp16 in imperative mode, test=develop

* enhance coverage test, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* append error op hint for grad op maker, test=develop

* add unittests for coverage, test=develop

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* save InferVarType changes, test=develop

* remove code comments, test=develop

* tweak code, test=develop

* fix compilation warning, update merge_ids_op split_ids_op to new interface, test=develop

* modify fused_bn_activation_op, test=develop

* fix error of fused_bn_activation_op, test=develop

* fix PADDLE_ENFORCE and unittest coverage issue, test=develop

* tweak PADDLE_ENFORCE messages, test=develop

* improve unittest coverage, test=develop

* add StaticGraphInferVarType class, test=develop

* rebase develop branch, test=develop

* fix unittest error, test=develop

* remove comments, test=develop

* improve unittest coverage, test=develop

* imporve error message and imporve unittest coverage, test=develop

* upgrade InferVarType API, test=develop

* tweak pyfunc error message, test=develop

* fix compilation conflict - save_combine_op, test=develop

* add DataLoader, Dataset, BatchSampler

* fix init_gflags with 'python -c', test=develop

* enhance error msg related Tracer, test=develop

* refine err msg, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* static model runner basic implement, test=develop

* add run program op to execute loaded program, test=develop

* refactor static model runner & run program op, test=develop

* reset engine.cc to resolve conflict

* adapt the change of dygraph double grad, test=develop

* refactor impl to solve control flow error, test=develop

* clear debug code, test=develop

* fix ci str compatible error & checkout dygraph grad maker & add example, test=develop

* hide api & add op test, test=develop

* fix run program op test places error, test=develop

* fix program by review comment, test=develop

* delete change var desc name, test=develop

* fix other program by review comment, test=develop

* remove _static_graph_guard, test=develop

* add selectedrows test, test=develop

* remove desc parser, test=develop

* fix detail program, test=develop

* change socpe create & add test, test=develop

* use global conv cache; test=develop

* use singleton cache; test=develop

* fix format error; test=develop

* add cudnn helper header; test=develop

* fix header error; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix file format; test=develop

* fix include file error, test=develop

* remove kernel_configs_ in class ExecutionContext and kernel_configs_map_ in class OperatorWithKernel, test=develop

* fix test_elementwise_mul_op_dim, test=develop

* fix compile error, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nphlrain <phliuhongyu@126.com>

This reverts commit 48144e40.

* use global conv cache; test=develop

* use singleton cache; test=develop

* fix format error; test=develop

* add cudnn helper header; test=develop

* fix header error; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix mac unitest; test=develop

* fix file format; test=develop

* fix include file error, test=develop

* remove kernel_configs_ in class ExecutionContext and kernel_configs_map_ in class OperatorWithKernel, test=develop

* fix test_elementwise_mul_op_dim, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nphlrain <phliuhongyu@126.com>

* expose dygraph.grad api, test=develop, test=document_fix

* add more parameter in dygraph.grad API, test=develop

* add only_inputs=True parameter, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop, test=document_fix

* fix typo, test=develop, test=document_fix

* fix dygraph double grad, test=develop

* fix unpack constructor, test=develop

* add double grad implementation for dygraph, test=develop

* polish code, add uts, test=develop

* fix place bug, test=develop

* polish codes, add more uts for coverages, test=develop

* add no_grad_set, test=develop

* add star gan ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

initialize global nccl context in dygraph
test=develop

* refine grad maker, test=develop

* refactor tracer stage 1, test=develop

* merge develop to solve conflict third times, test=develop

* polish detail implement of data loader, test=develop

* solve coverage ci problem, test=develop

* reduce default attrs for dynamic graph, test=develop

* add some explanations for explicit attr, test=develop

* tweak explicit attr comments, test=develop

* fix loaded program load bug; test=develop

* first version

* speed backward engin; test=develop

* remove useless code; test=develop

* reconvery io.py; test=develop

* remove useless code; test=develop

* remove useless code; test=develop

支持不依赖nccl进行编译。[1/2]

多卡下，如果没有打开WITH_NCCL开关编译，多卡不能通信，则只能选择一张卡使用。
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

remove unnecessary template.

* add multiprocess for dygraph data loader, test=develop

* polish code & add safe gurad, test=develop

* refactor dygraph dataloader & add signal handler, test=develop

* fix member initializer compile error on ci, test=develop

* fix member initializer compile error one more, test=develop

* remove useless config, test=develop

* skip windows incompatible problem, test=develop

* add unittest for coverage, test=coverage

* add more exception unittest case, test=develop

* deal with signal handler coverage, test=develop

* polish code & add signal handler tests, test=develop

* deal with coverage ci problem, test=develop

* split data loader test & coverage ci fix, test=develop

* remove test_imperative_data_loader_with_exception, test=develop

* remove singal process except test case, test=develop

* add exception tests again & remove sample list test, test=develop

* split normal and exception unittests to diff class, test=develop

* polish doc for use_multiprocess effect in static mode, test=develop

* fix sample code, test=develop

* polish code style, test=develop

* update layers, test=develop

* fix input numpy, test=develop

* fix bugs, test=develop

* follow commments, test=develop

* update getitem, test=develop

* make OperatorWithKernel::InferShape virtual, test=develop

* fix test_prepare_op by relu, test=develop