【PRIM】Support use operator's output metadata info  in constructing static backward composite (#50043)

* [prim] support custom target_gradients

* support infershape after append one gradop

* [prim] add simple net test

* fix test_loop segment fault bug

* [prim] fix infer shape segment fault bug when output of grad_op_desc is empty

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* refactor composite api with phi

* fix compile error

* support static graph code-gen for squeeze op

* generate static graph code of unsqueeze

* refine op name

* fix compile error

* add extra output in op_compat

* remove debug log

* fix clang compile error

* support prim switch flag

* support prim switch flag

* fix dygraph error

* merge develop

* add code_gen

* add necessary files without codegen

* fix code_gen bug

* add deps

* modify igmnore

* add ignore

* delete std cout

* add composite logic for backward.py

* add tanh first order grad composite

* support enable_prim flag for static graph

* throw expection when both GrapOpMaker and GradCompOpMaker not been registered

* reorganize the directory of prim api tests

* fix windows error

* add eager_utils

* add eager_utils

* modify code gen

* add composite parse

* add unittest for get_grad_op_desc

* code optimize

* fix static test on windows

* support generate static graph code for imag and real op

* fix windows compile error in test_static_prim

* merge develop

* disable test eager in inference

* prim code gen

* disable eager compile in inference

* rm other file

* rm gitignore file

* code_style

* add eager test

* code_style

* merge develop

* remove useless files

* modify static test

* support bool flag from singlton

* merge develop

* recover git ignore

* fix conflict

* recover git ignore for generated op

* fix test compile error

* remove some tests

* add python test

* fix some name issue

* add composite code gen

* modify backward yaml

* fix static composite grad maker code gen

* remove addtional files

* add some static funcs unit test

* fix some bugs

* fix composite grad maker register code gen

* optimize some functions
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* Compilation optimization

* add processgroup_nccl

* add cuda event and stream api

* add cuda event and stream api

* add get_current_stream api

* add get_current_stream api

* init streams

* modify get_current_stream

* modify get_cuttent_stream

* add synchronize func

* add current_stream doc and test file

* move get_current_stream into CUDA macro

* move CudaEvent into CUDA macro

* move _get_current_stream and _device_synchronize into cuda macro

* modify the macro of cuda stream and event

* add test case for synchronize

* add paddle.devices.cuda module

* event and stream support hip

* add doc for stream and event class

* move cuda stream and event into single pybind

* add cuda_streams_py.cc to cmakelist

* add _device_synchronize and _get_current_stream to core module

* add test case for cudastream and cudaevent

* move __all__ in streams.py

* fix test fail

* add cuda to devices __all__

* fix current_stream doc writing error

* move devices to device direction, and merge device.py into __init__.py

* add required:gpu to sample codes

* remove cuda direction from device/__init__.py

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

* Google naming conventions

* Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

* pybind with async_executor

* Naming convention

* remove some flags and unused code

* add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

* clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

* split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

* Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

* refine async_executor_refactor.cc

* add some files about datafeed

* Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

* Interface rework

* add MultiSlotDataFeed

* Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

* update data_feed for add MultiSlotDataFeed

* update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

* fix bug that finish_set_filelist failed in multithread

* delete finish_binding_memory_(flag), because it can not be marked under the current interface

* Fix bug

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

* update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

* fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

* remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

* add batch_size check

* add MultiSlotDesc

* Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

* add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

* add CheckFile function in MultiSlotDataFeed

* update something error info

* fix deaded lock bug

* Fix fetch variable

* Merge error

* fix code style in async_executor

* using one lock blocking queue replace two lock blocking queue because of some bugs

* update code style

* add utest for data_feed

* Fix fetch var

* update utest for data_feed for multithread

* update SetFileList info

* fix bug in utest of data_feed

* Add comments for python

* Add comments for python code

* Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

* add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

* Add save_model

* update data_feed_test for multi-type

* add comment for executor_thread_worker

* Remove unused code

* update data_feed_test for generate test data file

* removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

* c++ style check

* update data_feed.cc

* AsyncExecutor: C++ side

Google naming conventions

Rename MultiExecutor to AsyncExecutor

pybind with async_executor

Naming convention

remove some flags and unused code

add refactored file of async_executor and data_feed

clear async executor interface and add data feed factory

split async executor into executor_thread_worker and async_executor, refactor pybind, add datafeed and corresponding proto

Fix async_executor interfaces: 1) Remove all protobufs; 2) Stop after each epoch

refine async_executor_refactor.cc

add some files about datafeed

Revert "add some files about datafeed"

This reverts commit 8ee8133a.

add MultiSlotDataFeed

Interface rework

Creating DataFeedDesc from .proto file, then manipulate it (add/del fields etc) from python side

update datafeed and async_executor to run bow_net demo

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots

Fix bug

update async_executor.py for support set_use_slots and set set_dense_slots

fix bug that when the number of files is less than the number of threads, it will fetch nan

remove redundant code, and make executor exit when set a illegal queue size

add MultiSlotDesc

Revert "add MultiSlotDesc"

This reverts commit 2e72ebfa.

add some checkpoint in DataFeedDesc

Fix fetch variable

fix code style in async_executor

Fix fetch var

add utest for data_feed

Add comments for python

update utest for data_feed for multithread

fix bug in utest of data_feed

Add comments for python code

Fix pybind.cc with new pybind11 version

add note for DataFeedDesc's set_use_slots function

update data_feed_test for multi-type

Add save_model

update data_feed_test for generate test data file

removed unnecessary interfaces and add comments

add comment for executor_thread_worker

Remove unused code

update data_feed.cc

c++ style check

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* commit for code style

* Comment away __init__ in async_executor.py

* clang-format fix test=develop

* use PADDLE_THROW instead of exit(-1); use unique_ptr to manage scope var in data_feed_test.cc

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* Add async_executor demo; Remove some methods
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* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* commit for update code style

* update API.spec

* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* AsyncExecutor
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* Fix API.spec
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* Fix API.spec
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* Fix windows build error
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* FIx windows build error
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* FIx windows build error
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* FIx windows build error
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* Fix Windows Build
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* Fix Windows Build
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* Fix Windows Build
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* Fix code style
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* Fix code style
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* update datafeed

* Fix code style
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* update data_feed_test for test Tensor test=develop

* Fix code style
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* Fix windows build failure
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* Fix code style and windows build failure
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* Fix PYTHON3.5 build failure
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* AsyncExecutor API
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* cpplint test and add tesnor_py_test.cc

* Update

* Update

* Update tensor_util.h

* Update with moved TensorDesc

* Fix tensur_utils.cu

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Update

* Make tensor_util.cu a symbolic link