Update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op and add an updating_loss_scaling op for static graph amp training. (#26240)

* update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op for static_amp.

* use amp_check_finite_and_scale in static graph amp.

* update grads to zero when grads own infinite values(as for amp_checkout_finite_and_scale op).

* add update_loss_scaling op in cpp.

* add update_loss_scaling_op unit test.

* update the doc of the check_finite_and_unscale op

* Update the process of gradients updating skipping if the gradients have infinite values.

* update the way to zero grads.

* update test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* add log info when find infinite grads.

* add the unit test for UpdateLossScaling Layer.

* allow amp and recompute working together

* fix some typos in AMP. test=develop

* delete useless codes. test=develop

* add custom black varname test=develop

* fix dtype test=develop

* fix num test=develop

* fix ut test=develop

* fix coverage test=develop

* fix blackvar names test=develop

Optimize amp for multi-gpu to enable FP16 gradients transfer across gpus

init new amp, optimize inserting cast op for batchnorm

Change backward_guard to optimize_guard to maximize the allreduce overlap

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* init auto loss scaling

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* change API.spec

* change ifelse to switch and use reduce_sum to optimize checking isfinite

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* Remove redundant code

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* Init mixed precision training interface

* Add fp16 test script

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* All initializers support float16

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* Code cleanup & add more code annotations

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* Update API spec

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* Add usage example in doc

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