Update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op and add an updating_loss_scaling op for static graph amp training. (#26240)

* update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op for static_amp.

* use amp_check_finite_and_scale in static graph amp.

* update grads to zero when grads own infinite values(as for amp_checkout_finite_and_scale op).

* add update_loss_scaling op in cpp.

* add update_loss_scaling_op unit test.

* update the doc of the check_finite_and_unscale op

* Update the process of gradients updating skipping if the gradients have infinite values.

* update the way to zero grads.

* update test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* add log info when find infinite grads.

* add the unit test for UpdateLossScaling Layer.

* Add int8 GRU kernel with UTs

* Lint fixes

* More lint fixes

Error description optimize for math dir

* Fix the lookup_table_v2 failed on GRU mkldnn kernel issue
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* fix according to reviews, removed x_num_col_dims
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* update gru model. change according to reviews
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* change according to reviews
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* add double grad for tile, test=develop

* add double grad for expand_v2 op, test=develop

* add double grad for expand, test=develop

* - introducing oneDNN 1.6

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* - Removed redundant code

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 fix the CudaPinMemory bug for the equal op and add the test case for the equal op

update error info for selected_rows_functor

add lars to fleet meta optimizer

* set default value to strategy in distributed_optimizer test=develop

optimize the error message for math dir

* fix frobenius_norm error, rm p=0 2-axis support. test=develop

* fix summary rnn

* fix kl_div bug when input shape is [1] and reduction is batchmean

* enhance collect_op for dygraph, test=develop

* enhance detection ops with lod, test=develop

* support none bbox left in generate_proposals, test=develop

* unfiy MultiLevelRoisNum, test=develop

* update core.ops, test=develop

* add op register for new input & output, test=develop

* add correlation api to contrib

fix the error message for the unpooling.cc

* fix typo for interp_v2,test=develop

* align with torch, test=develop

* add area mode, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* format notes, test=develop

* update for converage, test=develop

* fix bilinear, test=develop

* fix bicubic, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* fix coverage, test=develop

* fix helper.input_dtype, test=develop

* polish notes, test=develop

* polish notes, test=develop

* polish notes, test=develop

* add lstm cudnn of padding data and refine cudnn codes

update the check for the dtype check for the argmin, argmax

* - Added fix to mobilenet

* - compilation fix

* - Fix to conv2d grad oneDNN with groups

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support heter-xpu-ps

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