功能：本PR的目标是提高attention模块的计算性能。
为了减少框架层对op的调度开销，本PR通过在C++层手动实现attention模块，对外提供attention 大op；
为了减少防存开销，本PR采取了两种优化方法：
（1）在q,k,v计算时通过共享输入X，将该处的gemm，transpose和bias add从三次调用减少为一次；
（2）使用kernel融合优化技术，在不同cuda kernel之间通过寄存器传输数据；

Fused elementwise_add, dropout, elementwise_add and layer_norm into one operator, only support Forward. 
No Python API changed.

This PR adds fused transformer related files defining c interface including class, function etc..

* fix test_unpool_op

* fix test_inplace_addto_strategy

* fix test_conv2d_fusion_op

* fix test_imperative_lod_tensor_to_selected_rows, test_imperative_selected_rows_to_lod_tensor

* fix test_dot_op

* fix test_correlation_op

* fix tracer

* fix test_memcpy_op

* [ROCM] update fluid operators for rocm (part3), test=develop

* fix clang format error, test=develop

* added external reorder to profiler

* resolved conflict

* added enable_static

* initial version of lstm, not working yet

* added lstm to operators.cmake

* added vanilla lstm mkldnn op

* added peephole weights integration

* minor changes

* added formatting

* added fusion_lstm_mkldnn to static_whitelist

* added formatting

* removed comment

* moved use_peepholes attribute inside is_cached block

* reverted wrong changes

* minor formatting change

* minor changes

* changed stream handling

* minor change

* added datatype to GetExpectedKernelType()

* added reading stream from TLS

This reverts commit d834f4e6.

* added external reorder to profiler

* resolved conflict

* added enable_static

* initial version of lstm, not working yet

* added lstm to operators.cmake

* added vanilla lstm mkldnn op

* added peephole weights integration

* minor changes

* added formatting

* added fusion_lstm_mkldnn to static_whitelist

* added formatting

* removed comment

* moved use_peepholes attribute inside is_cached block

* reverted wrong changes

* minor formatting change

* minor changes

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows CPU.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows GPU, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Add option in windows ci script, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Optimize parallel compiling, test=develop

* remove limit of parallel compile and skip some ops in UB, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* fix test_eye_op unittest failed, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Linux, test=develop

* set default WITH_UNITY_BUILD=OFF, test=develop

* Move unity build rules into a single file and add comment, test=develop

* optimize parallel compilation, test=develop

* fix undefined reference error on coverage ci, test=develop

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* add fused_bn_add_relu op

* Add oneDNN fusion_gru kernel and fix fc+gru pass
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* Formatting changes
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* Lint fixes
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* Add memory::format_tag::any to GRU weights
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* Fix build with CUDA

* Fix build with CUDA v2

* 1. add embedding eltwise layernorm fuse
2. add embedding eltwise layernorm op
3. refine inplace_add_relu
4. refine fc_eltwise_layernorm
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* 1. refine fc
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* fix comments
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* fix comments

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* add bn and relu fuse pass

* add op attr assert and dtype assert

* fix some inputs&&outputs bugs for the fused op and pattern.

* add the unittest for fuse_bn_act_pass. test=develop

* use normative enforce statements. test=develop

* add the cpu test. test=develop

* add the support of batch_size=1 for the bn with relu op. test=develop

* add the error type for paddle throws. test=develop

* add fused_batch_norm_act and fused_batch_norm_act_grad to op_has_unsed_vars_white_list. test=develop

* Add the dynamic load of nvrtc, and support runtime compiling of CUDA kernel using nvrtc.
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* Call CUDA driver api to launch the kernel compiled by nvrtc.
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* Disable for mac and windows.
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* Refine the codes to support manually specified num_threads and workload_per_thread.
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* Refine the CUDA kernel to support large dims.
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* Add DeviceCodePool to manage all device codes.

* Add the first implementation fusion_group op.

* Add unit-test for fusion_group op.

* Add the check of result.

* Add the check of nvrtc in unit-test.
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* Add comment to explain the inputs, outputs and features of fusion_group op.
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* Disable fusion_group op for mac and windows.
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* Make the compiling of device code return status instead of hanging up.
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* Add the check of whether there is CUDA driver library, and do not core dump when failing to call the CUDA driver API.

* Unify fusion_group_op's input and output names.
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* Add the check of CUDA driver library in unittest.
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* Refine the calling of PADDLE_ENFORCE.
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* Move the codes of fused operators to operators/fused directory.
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* Correct the op name in cmake.

* Change the use of PADDLE_ENFORCE.
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* Add fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse pass and unittest.

* Add fused_fc_elementwise_layernorm op and its GPU kernel.
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* Apply fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse_pass to GPU inference.

* Add the setting of attrs in the definition of binary_op.
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* Add comment.

* Implement the unittest.
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* Change the unittest name of layer_norm.
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* Inception fusion operator.
* Support horizontal layer fusion in conv_fusion_op.
* Search conv algo strategy for variable-length input.
   search N times and cache the searched algos. For other input, choose the algo of input whose area is closest to this input.

* Transpose-Flatten-Concat fusion operator.
* Add unit testing and fix bug.

* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop