add squeeze_op/unsqueeze_op on kunlun;fix conv op and parallel executor;optimize lookup_table op (#31056)

* add squeeze_op/unsqueeze_op on kunlun; fix conv op and parallel executor on kunlun; optimize lookup_table op on kunlun

* update squeeze/unsqueeze op

* support xpu inference with analysis predictor, test=develop

* merge the cmake of the xpu toolchain, test=develop

* add c-apis, test=develop

* fix a bug in extern_xpu, test=develop

* add aarch64 and sunway kunlun lib

* minor

* optimize elementwise_add for kunlun

* update kunlun dependence

* minor

* minor

* fix expand && concat/transpose to new api

* update xpu_header

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* add nearest_interp on kunlun

* update error message

* support roi_align & affine_channel for kunlun

* minor

Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@bjhw-sys-rpm0223.bjhw.baidu.com>

* update conv2d & softmax to new xpu api
* test=kunlun

* remove useless comments
* test=kunlun

* remote softmax xpu op
* test=kunlun

* update kunlun softmax
* test=kunlun

* update xpu unitest
* test=kunlun

* fix elementwise_grad bug for kunlun
*test=kunlun

* 1.add xpu slice op 2. add xpu top_k op 3.modify xpu cast to new api

* 1.add xpu slice op 2. add xpu top_k op 3.modify xpu cast to new api

*test=kunlun

* support elementwise add, activation, matmul on Baidu Kunlun
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* reconstuct the xpu directory
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* minor
* test=kunlun

* support Baidu AI Accelerator
  * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun

* support xpu op in separate file
 * test=kunlun

* update XPU error message and remove duplicated code

 * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun

* minor
 * test=kunlun