cherry-pick from #45826
LayoutAutotune 支持 inplace 类型的OP
 根据 Add eager layout autotune #45409 修改意见调整UseAutotune
将LayoutAutotune判断放到controller中，与AMP 判断保持一致

* add tensor array

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* update by comment

* update code

* make dense_contents_ lazy init

* update legacy dygraph

* fix legacy dygraph bug

* add runtime config in phi

* add runtime attr for op desc and op

* fix no proto error

* adjust opdesc set_attr impl

* try to remove conv_op extra attrs

* add init runtime attr map

* change extra header path

* fix runtime_attr

* fix trace_op

* fix bug of pass

* fix merge conflict

* fix dygraph attrs

* fix bug of pass

* fix dygraph bug

* fix unittest module

* delete extra attr default

* fix dropout kernel

* polish code

* fix extra output of instance_norm

* fix merge confilct

* fix op_desc bug

* add extra attr in yaml for conv3d_transpose

* don't remove extra input and output

* fix save_inference_model

* fix bug of batch_norm

* revert some change

* polish log

* polish code

* add code comment
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>

* [OpAttr]num_rows/num_colums of eye support Tensor type

* fix attr cast with long type

* use addKernel

* fix compile

* remove elementwiseAddto

* add return

* fix custom place

* move check finite and unscale kernel into phi

* move infershape into phi

* move update_loss_scaling kernel into phi

* remove original kernels

* move update loss scaling infershape into phi

* add header for xpu and npu

* solve coverage failed

* fix npu test failed

* remove mutable data in cu file

* fix new executor failed

* add valid check for meta tensor output

* fix

* add control flag and input shapes for new dygraph

* fix file mode

* improve code coverage

* fix a bug in statstic

* fix according to review

* optimize performance

* fix

* add macro control in enforce_xpu.h, test=kunlun

* minor bugfix

* minor bugfix

* move mkldnn activation kernel

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix windows compile bugs

* mkldnn unittest fix

* change mutable to alloc

* fix unittest bugs

* modify code according comment

* polish and rename, pt* -> phi*

* fix code format

* remove cudaDeviceContext

* remove more template

* fix rocm compile

* remove alias name CUDADeviceContext

* fix compile

* fix tests

* revert changes

* compile into one static library

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix inference compile

* fix inference compile

* add custom test

* revert one file

* Rename BOOST_GET macros

* Fix conflicts

* update xccl lib
    * use separate streams for compute/comm on XPU
    * add broadcast op to xpu2_op_list

* Compilation optimization

* Add Concat transformer for layout autotune

* feat(): dynamic_to_static support for ipu.

* fix(): format fix.

* fix format

* fix cpplint error

* use phi::errors

* fix format

* fix format

* fix(): add api to restore patched function.

* fix(): identity_loss uses cpu place as expected kernel type.

* doc(): add IPU dy2static related docs.

* fix(): combine test cases.

* fix format

* fix comment

* fix format

* apply comment

* fix compiling

* fix(): align docs.

* fix(): fix identity_loss function docs.

* fix(): adjust mean and sum in identity_loss.

* fix(): minor docs.

* move API to paddle.incubate.identity_loss

* fix UT
Co-authored-by: Nzhaorui chen <zhaoruic@graphcore.ai>

* fix deriv with inplace

* fix double grad bugs

* remove additional file

* fix compat dygraph mode

* fix yaml remove additional yaml

* fix slice double grad error and auto code gen logic error for higher order differentiate

* fix fix_higher_order_deriv

* remove additional include

* fix fix_higher_order_deriv

* fix init()

* delete test_device_context

* replace CPUDeviceContext with CPUContext

* fix test_scalar

* remove dot_op.cc

* fix compile

* record memory and op supplement info

* update

* update

* fix a bug

* fix memory recording

* fix a bug

* update

* update

* fix a bug

* update

* fix a bug

* fix a bug

* fix a bug

* update dygraph record

* add infer shape record

* fix

* fix

* fix

* add comments

* fix a bug

* fix

* fix

* fix starganv2

* fix starganv2 stop_gradient end error

* fix edvr_starganv2

* fix mul kernel to fix optional ddx

* fix typo

* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* refine enforce code

* refine enforce code

* fix compile failed

* fix infrt failed