Enhance error message of cross_entropy_op, sigmoid_cross_entropy_with_logits_op, test=release/1.8 (#24542)

 * cherry pick #22778

* refine grad maker, test=develop

* refactor tracer stage 1, test=develop

* merge develop to solve conflict third times, test=develop

* refactor dygraph,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* polish code,test=develop

* check windows ci error,test=develop
try to fix windows ci error by np.allclose,test=develop

* polish vlog and profiler, test=develop

* try to fix preceding ops order,test=develop

* test transformer in windows ci, test=develop

* use python c-api to speed up tracer.trace,test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, add ut for debug string and gradient_accumulator

* test=develop, add tests for layer/gradient_accumulator/prepared_op

* test=develop, fix complie error for test_prepared_op

* test=develop, add more ut for dygraph

* test=develop, create API.spec for dygraph api change

* optimize grad maker; test=develop

* optimize grad maker

* test

* grad make optim; test=develop

* fix unittest bugs; test=develop

* add dygraph grad op maker and split_op

* grad op maker refactor; test=develop

* add dygraph grad maker; test=develop

* fix op deformable_conv_v1_op bug; test=develop

* fix deformable_conv prroi pool bugs;

* fix new op grad op maker bug; test=develop

* fix split by ref bug; test=develop

* fix dygraph auto prune bug; test=develop

* fix test_trace bug; test=develop

* fix fused emb seq pool bug; test=develop

* remove useless code in op_desc file; test=develop

* remove useless code, StrVarBaseNode; test=develop

* fix review issues; test=develop

* fix rank_loss grad maker; test=develop

* remove flag in VarBase; test=develop

* fix distributed_notify_op compile bug ; test=develop

* fix reshape op double grad; test=develop

* fix expand as op; test=develop

* add impertive type_defs.h for demo_train; test=develop

* fix inference lib cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix infernce_lib; test=develop

* fix inference cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* remove condition dygraph grad maker, modify local name; test=develop

* fix split grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix pyramid_op bug; test=develop

* change travis time out limit; test=develop

* restore travis; test=develop

* change timeout limit; test=develop

* replace part of the old implementation, test=develop

* restore concat op, test=develop

* update all ops implemention & delete GetDataTypeOfVar func, test=develop

* add error log

* Remove constraint that last dimension is forced to be 1 in cross_entropy
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* modify labels last dims test=develop

* fix shape_check; test=develop

* fix format; test=develop

* fix format; test=develop

* fix ddim bug; test=develop

* fix c++ format; test=develop

* change function name; test=develop

fix ctest eager deletion disable bug
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* loosly check in cross_entropy_op when soft_label is True
* Add Runtime assertion in backward infer_shape check.
* Skip InferShape check when un-know the input dimensions

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* add_infer_var_type
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* InferVarTypeHelper-> VarTypeInferenceHelper
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* PassInputTypeAndDTypeOnOutput
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* follow comment
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* add ignore index

* update api.spec

* enhance softmax_with_cross_entropy

* Fix batch norm when only 1 elements in normzalize dimension during training.

* "add inplace attribute"

* "register inplace attribute"

* "change se-next model for memory-reuse"

* "fix typo"

* repick

* fix merge conflict

* "fix stupid error"

Do not use ctor

* Reduce line of codes.
* We can use virtual function for Maker now.
* The implementation does not care what maker holds, it is easier to
refactor later.

* script to add semicolon

* fix typo

* add rename guard

* add device_data_transform

* add device_data_transform_test

* modify GetExpectedKernelType

* update operator.run

* support test test_label_semantic_roles

* optimize code

* optimize code

* rename GetActualKernelType to GetExpectedKernelType

* fix chunk_eval_op and device_data_transform_test

* add is_same_place to place

* optimize code, refine rename_guard

* refine rename guard, add GetKernelTypeForVar

* optimize code

* add some log

* rename guard

* use sub scope to create var

* fix compile

* add IsInitialized for Tensor

* add VarIsTensor

* fix op_registry_test

* test

* tmp disable priority

* restore switch_kernel.md

* code clean

* init kernel hint

* fix typo

* rm unused code

* add include in op_kernel.h

* restore op_kernel since it will be moved to op_kernel_type

* change force_cpu to use_cpu

* fix compilation

* Move framework.proto to proto namespace

* Fix compile

* Fix compile

* Fix Compile

* init decoder_trainer

* can run

* fix lod

* add sharelod to cross_entropy_grad_op

* add avg_cost to fetch list

* modify learning rate

* can run

* optimie code

* add early exit

* fix print

* revert test_understand_sentiment_conv.py

* add act to fc

* Chage `IndicateDataType` to `GetKernelType`. Make it easier to
  understand.
* Change `OpKernelKey` to `OpKernelType`
* Make operator developers can customize which kernel the operator will
  use in runtime.