* Revert "Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy" (#16022)"

This reverts commit e2da3a5b.

* use default stream
test=develop

* Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy (#15953)"

This reverts commit 7235fd66.
test=develop

* fix CI
test=develop

Add Event for TensorCopy 

* Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy (#15953)"

This reverts commit 7235fd66.
test=develop

* fix CI
test=develop

Add Event for TensorCopy 

* "remove GPU Sync Interface"

* "fix typo"

* "fix type cast error"

* "fix related Copy with stream"

* "fix failed tests with DevicePool"

* "fix stupid removed position error"

By shell command

```bash
sed -i 's#ifdef PADDLE_ONLY_CPU#ifndef PADDLE_WITH_GPU#g' `find ./paddle/ -name '*.h' -o -name '*.cc' -o -name '*.cpp' -o -name '*.c' -o -name '*.cu'`
sed -i 's#ifndef PADDLE_ONLY_CPU#ifdef PADDLE_WITH_GPU#g' `find ./paddle/ -name '*.h' -o -name '*.cc' -o -name '*.cpp' -o -name '*.c' -o -name '*.cu'`
```

User StridedMemCpy in Concat/Split Op

* with unit-tests
* Also complete `memcpy`