* Add paddle::variant and replace paddle::any (#42139)

* add variant and replace any

* split attribute

* Optimize dygraph GetExpectedKernelType perf (#42154)

* opt dygraph scheduling

* revert part impl

* fix variant compile error (#42203)

* replace any by variant in infermeta (#42181)

cherry-pick

fix compile bug of windows cuda11.5 #41433

This reverts commit 05f3d48e.

This reverts commit e77a947e.

* update

* add forward case

* update

* update; test=develop

* add some grad kernel; test=develop

* move gpu kernel; test=develop

* update

* update;

* update test;

* fix selected rows bug;

* add mix vector include ;

* add mixed vector depen; test=develop

* add logit grad signature;

* polish code

* fix bug;

* add namespace for abs

* revert code

* not move softsign

* revmove duplate register;

* fix softsign bug

* polish code

* format

* format

* fix bug

* remove cmake dep

* add square sqrt selected rows support

* update

* remove clip norm

* add standalone executor sqrt dep

* standalone exec denp sqrt

* remove sqrt op in cmkaelist

* open some case

* move activation

* fix bugs when run ce

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* move activation kernel

* revert relu6

* reduce add code

* perfect use_phi_functor

* completing func name

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix bugs when run infr

* modifpy infrt get kernel signature

[Phi]Move Relu/Cos/Sin/Tan/Acos/Asin/Atan/Sinh/Cosh/Asinh/Acosh/Atanh kernels in Activation to Phi (#40175)

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment