* Add paddle::variant and replace paddle::any (#42139)

* add variant and replace any

* split attribute

* Optimize dygraph GetExpectedKernelType perf (#42154)

* opt dygraph scheduling

* revert part impl

* fix variant compile error (#42203)

* replace any by variant in infermeta (#42181)

* [Phi] Support setting size of vector<Tensor> for out in yaml (#41576)

* support setting vector out size in yaml

* support setting size of vector<tensor> for out in yaml

* resolve conflict
Co-authored-by: Nzyfncg <zhangyunfei07@baidu.com>

* add interploate cpu kernel

* fix nullptr bug

* add interpolate gpu kernel

* fix unit test error

* remove raw kernels

* add cuda kernel impl

* add infermeta

* recover accidentally deleted kernels in interpolate op

* fix grad x_grad name error

* remove interpolate_v2_op.h

* rm unused codes

* fix xpu build error

* fix build error

* fix namespace error

* add register header for nup

* fix infermeta error

* modify by review

* add the missing args in test_trt_convert_nearest_interp_v2

* add multi input for infer_shape

* support multi output for infershape

* fix split bug

* fix bug of concat

* support vector<MetaTensor*> in infrt

* fix bug

* modify infershape by args_def

* add optional type for infermate

* add optional type for infermate

* add optional type for infermate

* support scalar type

* change OptionalInputAt function to none template

* support phi::DataType

* add copy_to wrapped infermeta

* test=allcases

* test=allcases

* test=allcases

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* fix code conflict

* generate inter_meta register

* clear cache

* just try

* add sign c++ api

* polish some code

* add infermeta registry

* add infermeta registry

* add unittest

* polish details

* add infermeta utils for register infermeta

* polish license format