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1. Use CudnnWorkspaceHandle in exhaustive search of conv_cudnn.
2. For Ops using CudnnWorkspaceHandle in exhaustive search, release their GPU memory after exhaustive search.

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* make_conv_cudnn_ws_size_configurable, test=develop

* change std::max to std::min
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* speedup gc and inplace softmax_with_cross_entropy_grad
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* refine models gpu mem
Merge skip vars and warning messages of mem opt
remove relu mem opt
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* follow comments
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* - Reuse of conv PD

- conv transpose pd reused

- Added PD reusing of softmax and Batch Norm

- Refactoring and removal of not needed routines of mkl-dnn ops

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- Fix to reusing conv

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- Lint fixes

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- Further lint fixes

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- Lint  fixes

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- lint fixes

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- Lint workaround

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* - Fix after review on including boost as third party header

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* - Fix after review. Name change to something more descriptive

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This reverts commit c38c7c56.

* link the libwbaes.so into paddle

* polish detail, test=develop

* try fix mac_pr_ci error, test=develop

* add compile option, test=develop

* fix ci error, test=develop

* ignore failed to find mac lib, test=develop

* change cdn to bj, cdn can't get the latest version

* trigger ci, test=develop

* temporary delete win32 lib linking, test=develop

* change https to http, test=develop

* turn compile option on to off

* turn compile option off to on, test=develop

* try lib compiled by gcc4.8, test=develop

* update lib version, test=develop

* link other lib, test=develop

* add setup config

* delete false, test=develop

* delete no_soname, test=develop

* recover so name set

* fix, test=develop

* adjust make config, test=develop

* remove link to wbaes, test=develop

* remove useless define, test=develop

* fix compiled
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* follow comments test=develop

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support win32 flag in io.cc shell.cc, fix code style problem in fleet_wrapper, fix lodtensor_printer_test problem
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* Revert "[MKL-DNN] Fix to crash of Transformer when mkldnn is to be used (#16233)"

This reverts commit 13816dd4.
Apart from enabling transformer for MKL-DNN

* Revert "- MKL-DNN pooling updated to set_prim_desc"

This reverts commit c63f6b20.

Conflicts:
	paddle/fluid/operators/mkldnn/concat_mkldnn_op.cc

* Revert "[MKL-DNN] MKL-DNN specific Tensor modification (#15429)"

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This reverts commit dec9cf53.

* - concat compilation fix

- lint

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- Lint fixes

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- Lint fixes

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- Fix Transpose MKLDNN op

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add include headers to fix travis-ci
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modify allocator strategy
remove changes of legacy buddy_allocator
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* wip allreduce in op

* wip

* wip

* wip

* wip adding test

* wip for conflict with mp mode

* fix tests test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix travis clang format test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* update api.spec test=develop

* delete comment test=develop

* fix cpplint test=develop

* fix test=develop

* follow comment test=develop

* add file test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* update test=develop

* to be compatible with sync_bn, and fix mp mode in develop test=develop

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* Support Sync Batch Norm.
* Note, do not enable it in one device.

Usage:

build_strategy = fluid.BuildStrategy()
build_strategy.sync_batch_norm = True
binary = fluid.compiler.CompiledProgram(tp).with_data_parallel(
        loss_name=loss_mean.name,
        build_strategy=build_strategy)

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* Revert "Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy" (#16022)"

This reverts commit e2da3a5b.

* use default stream
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* Revert "Add Event for TensorCopy (#15953)"

This reverts commit 7235fd66.
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* fix CI
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Add Event for TensorCopy