* update elementwise double grad to save gpu memory, test=develop

* update elementwise_mul/div_grad_grad to save memory, test=develop

* remove eval function in eigen statement to save memory, test=develop

* add unittest for elementwise_div_grad_grad without dout, test=develop

* add unittest for elementwise_add_grad_grad without ddx, test=develop

* add float16 cuda kernel for elementwise double grad op, test=develop

* add_elementwise_add_inplace_test,test=develop

* rename file, test=develop

* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop